Rehearsal dinner 

Wedding Day

The Life Lutheran Church and Day School

Ceremony

Essex Club

Reception

Our Wedding

Back in 2018 we met on Ok Cupid… silly we know, but the night of our first date we knew we were meant to spend life together. That night, boats were fishes and fishes were boats. 5 years later, here we are getting married. Our Love continues to grow for each-other every single day. We can’t wait for what is to come in our life.

Our Story

Friday the 28th of September. 2018. The night of our first date. I was scrolling on OK Cupid, She stood out because she was blonde, a cheerleader, short, and beautiful as all can be. Why she swiped right on me I’ll never know. In her profile was a boyfriend application that I filled out as a joke. Who would have guessed what it would have turned into. We matched and she for some reason agreed to go out with me that Friday night. Pick the spot I said to her. She said this hibachi type restaurant by her house called Kashi. She offered to pay but I told her that wasn’t happening. Later that day she mentioned to me that she told her therapist about the date she had that evening. Some would say “red flag” but I like a challenge. Something about this one was different so I picked her up flowers for the first date. I drove to the house in my 2007 Honda Accord and texted I’m here. Allegedly she got the text as she was getting her sister Giavanna pasta and then screamed and spaghetti went everywhere. She rapidly got ready as her mom, Giavanna and Nicole all ran to the window to have a look. Apparently her aunt was recording her coming out to the car (something I was told about later). I got out handed her the flowers and at this particular moment, my jaw had a hard time staying connected to my face. It was open wide and she was grinning ear to ear listening to me babble like an idiot. We got in the car and the restaurant was only a short drive away. We talked about our day and how good the restaurant was. It was valet parking and for some reason the valet told me in front of her that I looked like Channing Tatum. We went inside sat down and began an hour and a half long conversation about all types of things. Our parents, jobs, school, siblings. Finally she was able to put 2+2 together that I am also missing a leg. We talked about that at length. I then proceeded to flip it upside down for her as my signature trick. We also talked about how there was a picture of me in my profile with it out and how she didn’t see it. She thought it was the coolest thing on the planet. The restaurant was good and we got done I paid of course and told her to keep her wallet away. We walked outside and staring into each other’s eyes nervously laughing with butterflies in my stomach I asked if she wanted the date to end. To my surprise she said no. It was then decided to go down to Long Beach I knew if she was gonna be cold I had some old work hoodies in my car that would do the job and she delightfully accepted. Down to the board walk we went where she showed me one of her job’s which was in a taco truck. Under a light we stopped and stared into the ocean as we saw the freighter boats coming in. It was at this point she said a staple phrase in our relationship. “Are those fishes or boats?” To which I said well they’re boats she said no they’re fishes I said okay they’re fishes no they’re boats. No they’re fishesIi said. No they’re boats okay I said they’re boats. No they’re fishes. I can’t win can I? No you can’t. I said okay and she gave me one more chance. Are they fishes or boats. I said fishes. No they’re boats YOU FUCKING IDIOT. My jaw dropped again, and for some reason in my head it clicked and I said I’m gonna marry this girl. We laughed and laughed and finally after some time it was quiet and perfect under the light we looked at each other and it was a mutual decision for me to brush her hair to side and we kissed. Both smiling ear to ear. The conversations continued and we sat on a bench. Now close to 10pm at night suddenly I got a phone call from home. My grandpa called to tell me the bathroom was flooding and he couldn’t shut it off. I looked at her apologizing and said I have to go. In the back of my head I thought to myself she thinks I’m ditching her and this is gonna be the last time I see her. Driving back we got a souvenir of a red light ticket of course. I dropped her off at home we kissed one more time and off  I went to deal with a first in the weeks family emergencies. Thinking to myself it was the best date of my life and luckily she thought the same. Luckily the house didn’t flood and the next day she still wanted to hear from me. That’s the story of both of our last first dates.

Our First Date - From Caleb’s point of view 💖

<p>Friday the 18th of March 2022. A day I will always keep dear to my heart. I knew the week it was happening, I had to so I could look my best and feel my best. After some convincing Caleb told me. I dressed to the nines everywhere we went just incase that was the time. Each time I was wrong. Every single time I though this is it. That week Caleb asked if I wanted to go to Viaggio in Rockville Centre  (our Valentine’s Day restaurant) so then FINALLY I was sure it was going to happen! On the other hand I wasn’t sure if this was him just throwing me off track, part of me was also convinced he was never going to ask. I decided to go with my gut feeling. IT HAD TO BE HAPPENING. So that lovely day I got ready put make up on, some glitter on my eyes and cheeks, curls in my hair. Then I put on a beautiful blue dress, and my favorite heels. I had to resist the urge to wear a tiara, we all know that’s a staple in my wardrobe. We left the house, he walked over to my side of the truck and opened the door for me and held my hand as I stepped up. He got in and we headed to the restaurant. We got there and got seated like every other time we dined. As always we sat and looked at the menu as if we didn’t already know what we wanted. I ordered a glass of Prosecco, the Baked Clams Oreganata as an appetizer and Penne alla Viaggio<br>as my entree. Caleb then ordered a beer and Grilled Prime Skirt Steak as his entree. It felt like forever then the drinks came. We chatted and he had me giggling as always. The appetizer came and went. We did some more chatting, I got some laughs out of him and dinner came and went then swiftly after so did desert. I felt like the whole restaurant knew I thought he was going to propose, and saw the sorrow in my eyes when he didn’t. He then asked for the check and I felt defeated. I felt so sure it was going to happen during dinner, like normal couples. But truly is anything we do normal?  We started to head out to the car and we began to walk out the back alley way of the restaurant, a beautiful area. Well lit with colored lights, handing lights and different murals. For the first time walking out of the restaurant felt different the air felt light, And we walked slowly. As we walked out I saw Gracie peeking around the corner trying to hide and at that moment I knew it was happening. Before I could take a breath he was on one knee and I could tell he was extremely nervous as he asked “Katlyn will you marry me?” I of course said yes along with other phrases like I can’t believe this and oh my god. We both fumbled with the ring then eventually got it on my finger. We took so many pictures to remember the night. I was on cloud nine my love in every lifetime finally proposed to me. It started to sink in that I was going to get to spend forever with the one person who has loved me unconditionally through thick and thin. I finally found the person who would love me just as much as I loved them. God answered my prayers. This was just another moment that showed me how much Caleb truly cares and loves me. After many kisses, we finished taking photos hugged Gracie and Michael and headed back to the car, he opened the door of course. I proceeded to call everyone in my family to tell them the news. Unbeknownst to me they were all together. Waiting. Instead of going home Caleb brought me to my mom’s where everyone was there just for us. They popped champagne as we pulled up, we then toasted to our future together. We all drank some bubbly, had coffee cake and celebrated our new engagement. As the night came to a close we got some more hugs from family members everyone began to go home and we got started on our next venture in life . We went home got cozy then went to sleep for the first time as Fíance’s.</p>

Our Engagement- From Kat’s point of view

April 4th, 2024

I’m Meaghan, I grew up with Kat and we have been through it ALL. I’ve had the privilege of getting to see her and Caleb fall in love and create a beautiful life together. I can’t wait to celebrate the two of you!!

Meaghan

Hi, I’m Tommy Caleb’s (and now Kat’s) best friend. Caleb and I first met in EMT school and it was love at first sight I’ve had so many memorable moments with Caleb over the years. When Kat first met me I’m pretty sure she hated me and I know she thought I was a bad influence on Caleb….. Now she loves me what can I say. I can’t wait to see them grow together and I’m looking forward to all the moments, laughs and memories the three of us will have for years to come. 

Tommy

Hi! I'm Kat's older sister! Well, not technically but we've grown up together and I can't imagine my life without her. She's the little sister I always wanted and I'm so excited to celebrate their love story. Can't wait to see you all on the dance floor and here's to the Giordano's!

Lauren

I’m Caleb’s younger sister and now Kat’s sister in law! I’m so happy that my brother has found his missing piece. Kat completes Caleb in the best way, and she fits right in with our family. Love you guys!

Gracie

Caleb and I have been friends for a very long time and I am so blessed to be part of this incredible day for him and Kat. I couldn't be happier to see him marry a woman as wonderful and loving as Kat and I look forward to seeing their love and family grow over time.

Matt

I’m Caleb’s youngest sister and still so happy he found someone like Kat. She’s always been a sister to me and I can’t wait for their journey to continue. To many more years of love and laughter!  

Lucia 

In late 2016 I joined the Carle place fire department, instantly Caleb and I connected and became friends. We went to emt school together and later on became roommates and ended up making many funny memories.

Alejo

Kat & I have been friends since we were young. It’s been a pleasure growing up with her & watching her fall in love with herself and with Caleb, I look forward to making more memories with them!

Amanda

Caleb Giordano. A man who's already had so many great things said about him throughout his life I've lost count. But what's mattered to me for all the long years I've known him wasn't because of the adversity he faced, the hurtles he's hopped over, and not even his acts of public service. No, as a man you realize at some point or another that companionship is what helps heal a soul. To have someone in your life that picks up the phone and makes your day brighter even for just 5 minutes a day. To open their doors and be neighborly to you. Even to open your eyes when you don't wanna see the truth. Because life hurts, but no matter how much it hurts. It's people like Caleb Giordano that help you through your brightest, and most dismal days of life. Kat is  going to make an excellent wife for Caleb. May your marriage be fruitful.

Anthony

Sophie 

Once upon a time i met Caleb who i didn’t think was as tall as he his. I made him laugh he made me laugh and that’s where the friendship started. I wish nothing but the best and i can’t wait to have a life filled with memories with the both you.

Hi, I’m John, I first met Caleb around 10 years ago at this wonderful place called EAS. After years of building a great friendship with Caleb.. who woulda known what it would grow into. Never a dull moment spent with these two fabulous human beings and I wish them nothing but the best on this future endeavor!

John

Hi i’m Kat and Caleb’s friend, it is never a dull moment when hanging out with them. Always laughs and can bullshit over  absolutely nothing. I can’t wait to make more memories with them both and standby their side on this special day! xoxo 

Catie

Jack

I’m Caleb’s brother in law. I’ve known Caleb and Kat for 5 years now and I think they’re great together. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for them!

Mike

I have known Caleb (aka my pookie) for many years. I can safely say not only is Caleb one of my best friends but he is also the #2 reason I am the degenerate I am today. Caleb is a phenomenal person and deserves everything he has found in life.

Ryan 

Kat is my beautiful older cousin ever since we were little I have looked up to her in every way. I’m so happy she found her person who is just as funny and sweet as she is I can’t wait to see what great things the future holds for them!

Makenna

My name is Giavanna I am lucky because Katlyn is my older sister. I am so happy to see both of you starting this new journey together. What does it mean to have an older sister like her? It means the world to me, I Love  her with all my heart even though I’m the family favorite. To witness the love you and Caleb have for each other is amazing! I look up to my sister and hope to be just like her when I grow up!! Caleb, a.k.a. jolly green giant I love you and I can’t wait to see the beautiful life you and my sissy will have!

Giavanna

Hi I'm Katlyns sister, me and her don't really talk a lot but when we do, hours go by. Im so happy for both of them, and I really think that they can flourish together. I'm excited to see them grow old together.

Olivia

I’m Katlyn’s Nana, I remember holding her the first day she was born and now she’s married to the Love of her life. When I first met Caleb I knew he was perfect for my girl. I Love both of them so deeply and I know they have an unbreakable bond just like me and her Doto did. 

Caleb & Katlyn

Caleb & Katlyn

C&K