The story of Callie and Ceara is a testament to the enduring power of friendship, a bond that blossomed in the vibrant chaos of a third-grade classroom and grew, unwaveringly, through the myriad phases of life. It was the kind of friendship that books and movies try to capture, full of laughter, whispered secrets, and pinky promises that felt as though they could withstand the test of time. And withstand they did.
As they grew, so too did their worlds. Their interests changed from barbies and the roller rink, to boys and the beach. Both girls discovered a passion for running and athletics. Track meets became their shared battleground, a place where competition and support danced hand in hand, and victories were sweeter because they could be celebrated together.
Now in their 30s, separated by miles but connected by memories, Callie and Ceara's friendship has endured the tests of time and distance. Life has taken them on separate journeys—Callie to the warm weather of Florida and Ceara settling down in their hometown of Smithfield, Maine with her family. Yet, despite these distances, their friendship has not just survived; it has thrived. They have mastered the art of long-distance friendship, with texts, calls, and video chats. They share the good and the bad times, a testament to the depth of their connection. Birthdays and holidays are still celebrated with calls, texts and heartfelt gifts.
Their story is more than just a tale of enduring friendship; it's proof that distance cannot dictate a bond. Callie and Ceara, from third grade to their thirties, continue to write a story of friendship that inspires, a reminder that some bonds are simply meant to be.
Lindsey Belair - Bridesmaid
While Callie and Lindsey grew up just thirty minutes for one another, they first met when they were in college at the University of Maine. Back then, they were just two faces among many, their lives brushing against each other's at parties, the tanning salon, and other local events. They were acquaintances, friendly but not yet friends, connected by mutual circles but not directly linked.
Fast forward a few years, and fate, with its mysterious ways, led them both to Florida. It was here, amidst the backdrop of palm trees and sun-kissed beaches, that Callie and Lindsey truly discovered the depth of their friendship. Their initial encounters in Florida were serendipitous, a series of coincidences that felt anything but accidental. Perhaps it was the shared nostalgia for their college days or the mutual understanding of being Mainers in a land so starkly different from where they had come. Whatever the reason, they found solace in each other’s company, and the friendship began to flourish.
They became each other's family away from home, their bond strengthened by shared experiences and the comfort of having someone who understood the journey. What makes their friendship truly special is its resilience and the effortless connection that they share. Lindsey has been a constant in Callie's life, a testament to the fact that true friendship doesn’t just happen; it’s built over time, through the ups and downs, the mundane and the extraordinary moments.
With Lindsey, Callie found not just a friend but a confidante, a partner in crime, and a shoulder to lean on during times of joy and hardship alike. In Lindsey, Callie has found a friendship that transcends distance and time, a friendship that, much like them, found its true beginning far from where it first started.
Erin Kolakowski - Bridesmaid
Callie and Erin's paths first intertwined at The Village School. Callie, the Director of Student Life, spends her days creating an enriching environment for every student. Her days are filled with planning events, coordinating clubs, and ensuring that the school is a place where students can thrive not just academically, but socially and emotionally as well.
Erin, the school counselor, offers a calm and compassionate presence, guiding students through their challenges and supporting their emotional well-being. Her office is a sanctuary for many, a place where students feel heard and understood. Their collaboration began with shared projects aimed at enhancing student life and well-being, but it quickly evolved into a meaningful friendship. Callie and Erin found in each other not just a colleague but a kindred spirit, someone who shared their passion for making a difference in the lives of young people.
The depth of their bond was further solidified when they discovered that they were both expecting. The news brought them even closer, as they embarked on the journey of pregnancy together. Their pregnancies became a shared experience, filled with moments of joy, anticipation, and the inevitable anxieties of impending motherhood.
When their children were born, just weeks apart, Callie and Erin's lives were forever changed. Their friendship provided a foundation of understanding and empathy, making the overwhelming moments of parenting feel a little less daunting.
At work, Callie and Erin continued to be there for each other, both professionally while collaborating on initiatives that bridged their respective roles, and personally where they celebrate life's milestones together and connect over hardships, both being heavily impacted by the hurricane. Their friendship, rooted in shared experiences and a deep understanding of each other's lives, has become a source of strength and joy, a constant in the ever-changing landscape of life. And while they won't be working together anymore after this school year, they are confident that the friendship they have created is one that will withstand.
Bryan Gwin - Groomsman
Chad meet Bryan while attending Western Michigan where they both worked at Chili's. Bryan and Chad have always stayed close after working together for years from chili's to Buffalo Wild Wings and enjoying many rounds of golf together. Chad sees Bryan as more a brother than a friend. From crazy trips to Vegas or lazy days on the beach, Chad and Bryan always have plenty to talk about when they get together. Even after Chad moved to Florida they've still connected once a year for some golf and a few beers.
Jack Wilson - Groomsman
Jack Wilson is Chads cousin from his moms side, and they have been close since Chad stayed with the Wilson's one summer when Jack was still young. As Jack grew into an amazing young man, Chad always knew that he was destined for an amazing future. Jack is a graduate of the Naval Academy and has been serving his country in the United States Navy. Jack is soon to be done with his service, and has a family of his own now with his wife Michelle and two young boys. Chad knows that Jack will do amazing in whatever he decides to do next. Jack and Chad have a close bond that no matter the time or distance between seeing each other, they can pick right back up where they left off. Jack is also Chad's golf partner in a running family Championship Belt match and Jack and Chad are current champions.
Nick Brown - Groomsman/Flower Dude
Nick and Chad first met not too long ago as Chad made his first visit to Callie's home state of Maine. Once Chad met Nick for the first time he knew that he could relax a bit as they had similar likes and both enjoyed the outdoors. As Callie's little brother, it was also clear to Chad that they both cared deeply for the well being of Callie. Nick, a Fire fighter and paramedic in Maine, impressed Chad with his work ethic. His entrepreneurial spirit was something Chad loved to see, as it reminded him so much of himself. Since their first meeting, a relationship has formed over the mutual love and respect of Callie, a beloved sister and future wife. Chad looks forward to having Nick as his brother in law.
Charlie Duckwall - Ring Bearer
Meet our charming ring bearer, our beloved son Charlie! With his bright blue eyes and infectious smile, Charlie brings boundless joy and energy to our lives every day. Charlie holds a special place in our hearts, and we couldn't imagine our big day without him by our side. Though small in size, Charlie's presence is sure to light up the day as he proudly walks down the aisle. With his adventurous spirit and playful nature, we know that Charlie will add an extra touch of sweetness and spontaneity to our wedding celebration. Mommy and daddy love you so much Charlie.
Charley Rose Kolakowski - Flower Girl
Introducing our sweet flower girl, Charley Rose! Charley is not just a beloved member of our wedding party; she is also Charlie's very best friend. Charley is so adorable and brings a sprinkle of joy wherever she goes. From play time at school to adventures at the beach or zoo, Charlie and Charley are inseparable, sharing lots of fun and giggles. Charley holds a special place in our hearts, and we are thrilled to have her play a starring role in our wedding celebration. With her sweet smile and flower-strewn path, Charley will undoubtedly add a touch of magic to our special day.
Jett Pagan - Ring Security / Flower Dude
Jett is Chad's nephew and a handsome one at that! Just six weeks older than Charlie, Jett will lead the way for these two to get into loads of trouble throughout the years we have no doubt. Jett is a happy boy with lots of energy and the sweetest smile. We just couldn't have our special day without him. We are sure that he will do a great job at ring security and ensuring that uncle Chad doesn't lose Aunt Callie's ring before the ceremony!