Your invitation will state how many people are invited and have the invited names listed, if not specified on the invitation we kindly request that you do not invite a plus one. We are having an intimate celebration and want to celebrate with those closest to us!

Yes! We are requesting that our guests wear formal ALL black attire. Formal dress code for women includes, floor length gowns and tea length dresses, absolutely NO white. Please remember we are asking for ALL black, this includes shoes as well. For men this includes suits and tuxes. If you have a tux, wear it! MEN- it is ok to wear a white dress shirt under your jacket. Absolutely NO denim, shorts, or flip flops. This is a FORMAL event. We look forward to seeing all of our loved ones looking their best in ALL black formal attire! ** For any questions please contact Candy Peratt at (760)885-7885. The ALL black attire for both men and women includes, dresses, dress shoes/heels, suit jackets, slacks, cover-up jackets for women, ties etc. The ONLY attire we are allowing color for is white dress shirts for men only, Women can wear whatever jewelry makes them feel beautiful and confident!

In order to allow all guests, including parents, a night of relaxation, we have chosen for our wedding to be an adults only occasion, with an exception of those in the wedding party. So enjoy a date night on us!

The drinks are on us but the hangover is on you! We will have an open bar including beer, wine, champagne and premium liquor until 11 PM.

The Party bus will begin transporting from the Mariott for guests choosing to stay there beginning at 3:30PM. We ask that all guests arrive at 4 o'clock in the evening. We will have a social hour before ceremony where beer, champagne, and soda will be offered. Do not arrive after 5:15 PM as the ceremony will begin promptly at 5:30 PM.

Valet service is required by the venue, should you choose to drive and not take the party bus. However, valet service will be paid in advance for our guests, but feel free to tip.

We are having an UNPLUGGED ceremony. We have hired an amazing group of photographers and videographers to capture our special day and want all of our loved ones to be living in the moment with us. We ask that all phones and cameras are turned off or put on silent until the end of the ceremony.

Please RSVP by March 4th, 2025! If you cannot attend, you will be missed! Please indicate your regrets on our RSVP so we can plan accordingly. *Since this is an intimate ceremony, please do not RSVP 'Yes!" unless you are 100% certain that you can attend.

Yes! We are asking all guests to tag us in all your photos and videos on social media using the #VowtoVierthaler hashtag.