What Ruth wants Ian to know: -- Feed Carol snacks when she gets grumpy -- If Carol asks if she can have more plants the correct answer is always yes

What Jessica wants Ian to know: -- She's not swooning, she just needs some salt in her water. -- Come to a marital decision early on "how much yarn is too much yarn". -- You do not have to accept Kale as being part of every meal, including desserts.

What Jaci wants Ian to know: -- Bold of you to marry into the Aggie cult. -- If you two have beautiful ginger children and at least one of them is not named after a Weasley, please just know I will be personally disappointed. -- I hope you enjoy hand knit gifts because you have a lifetime full of them ahead of you.

What Zach wants Carol to know: -- Ian is not always the best at asking for help, make sure you don’t let him struggle alone.

What Jared wants Carol to know: -- If you need to communicate with Ian when he is not at home, he will always pick up a phone call. Don’t be surprised when he doesn’t answer texts or snapchats. -- Ian is always down for a trailblazing adventure, whether that entails a night on the town or in the mountains. Either way, he will prefer to be in bed early.

What Wayne wants Carol to know: -- Ian is a great gift giver. -- His actions always speak louder than his words -- He recharges in nature, so be ready to camp in the wilderness.