Patricks perspective ~

A time not so long ago I attended my dear friend Zach’s wedding. I remember him telling me about this cute bridesmaid who was single, I of course excited and curious checked out her Facebook profile to find out she’s more attractive than I would’ve thought. So, I kept my hopes up in what I believed would be a memorable evening.

Along comes rehearsal day. Who do I see but an absolutely stunning woman in a floral romper, it was like the lights grew dim and all was shining upon her. She stood out like a sore thumb. Could I say anything to her? No. I was way too nervous to make a fool of myself and wind up stuttering or fumbling my words.

The evening went by and the wedding party gathered together that night at a little fire at Hannah’s parent's air b&b. I looked and looked over at her and still did not have the courage to go talk to her. Even Zach gave up his seat so one spot was available to sit beside Cass, and could I take it? Absolutely not. All I could do was just look at her and hope she wouldn’t think I was weird.

The night passed and along came the wedding day! While we the groomsmen were standing along with Zach I watched as this breathtaking, elegant, and just absolutely stunning woman came down the aisle. I was making comments to Ryan (a fellow groomsmen) that Cass looked so good. I couldn’t take my eyes off her, peeking around the shoulders of the other men just to catch a glimpse of her.

After that was said and done during a little cocktail hour I was chatting amongst some of the groomsmen and other folk while still looking at this gorgeous woman with the bridesmaids. I was speaking with the guys and Alyea, she told me that Cass was interested and I was in disbelief. Not even thinking she would have any interest in me. I was nervous. I had no idea how to open to this girl.

So here comes miss strong and independent asking me to smell my wine. Yup. That was her icebreaker. I was more or less shocked and said “Yeah, of course, yanno you can have a taste too if you’d like?” She did. But white wine wasn’t really her thing.

From that moment on to the reception, we didn’t stop talking. We talked and talked. Even during dinner, sitting beside each other and chatting it up, laughing, and enjoying each other's company. But wait there’s more.

A little game where you pick a chocolate and depending on the colour, you do the activity. Lo and behold, Hannah’s mom pulled what I believe was a blue one. Cass had to kiss somebody of her choosing. Me not thinking she was going to pick me cause we only just met. Nope. Here she comes. I stand up she places a finger on my cheek leading me into a wonderful passionate kiss. Luckily enough, it was caught on camera! Me doing what I do, smiled and cheered and threw my hands up like I won the lottery! (In my heart I think I did) after a night filled with dancing and laughter, we continued to enjoy each other's company while she was here.

So the following day after a little Starbucks coffee, we decided to go on an adventure. Off to Carter's beach, we go! A few hours pass in the car singing and laughing the whole way. We got to the beach and it was wonderful. Walked the beach up and down, and even wrote our names in the sand (gross).

After our beach date, we were driving back but somebody was getting a little bit hungry. I, not even paying attention to how many exits I’m passing that apparently had food at them, apologize to Cass and tell her we’re almost to Hammonds plains so we can get McDonald’s. So 1 large fries fixed her right up, I may have taken a few.

Once we got back to Halifax we knew the day wasn’t done yet. Off to the boardwalk, we go! We hung out with Cass’s friends and we decided to head across the harbour on the ferry. I’ve never been on it before but I’m glad I was able to experience that for the first time with her. We headed to an Irish pub, ate some food and enjoyed some live music. After that we were heading back and I noticed a beautiful yellow flower in a garden bed. I didn’t even second-guess it, I jumped straight in and grabbed that flower ripping it from the others and giving it right to her. Totally worth all the dirt on my clothes.

After heading back across on the ferry I knew the night was, sadly, coming to an end. When bedtime came I wrapped my arms around her and never let her go the entire night. I stayed in that exact position for hours keeping her in my arms. When morning came I wasn’t doing too good. Not cause of the lack of sleep or the dead arms, but the fact that I wasn’t sure if I was ever going to see her again. I walked her to the car and I may have shed a tear or two. Knowing there were feelings for her so quickly seemed so silly. But maybe my heart knew something I didn't. We continued to talk and just 2 months later I had a flight booked out to BC! So excited, after the many FaceTimes and phone calls I got to see her again.

So excited to fly across the country I got to take many different methods of transportation. But one will always be on my mind. When I was on the ferry across from Vancouver to the island, I was expecting Catherine to be there to pick me up, as that was our plan because I thought at the time Cass couldn’t get off work for a few hours later. So I exited the ferry walking towards the parking lot looking for Catherine when this little 5ft 3” little piece of heaven came around the corner, as I was overly excited dropped my bags and maybe used explicit language. So excited to see her, I pick her up and kiss her.

Feeling so full of joy I couldn’t believe I was there with her. It was like no time passed at all. We took an adventure up to Port Renfrew and took in so many gorgeous sights along the way. From beautiful trees to amazing waterfalls.

That evening after enjoying a fire and a warm supper we were getting cozy in bed while gazing into each other's eyes. That’s when those three magical words were said. “ I love you”. We both knew we meant it. A feeling I’m so sure of.

After a few days of exploring and meeting some of her family, I sadly had to return home. But I knew I was coming back soon. It wasn't long after I got home that we were talking about when the next flight would be booked. Sure enough, Cass was able to come out for Christmas!

SO excited to share a wonderful holiday with such a wonderful person. After the presents were opened and time with family spent, we headed off for a little getaway to the camp. We couldn’t have asked for better weather. We even decided to go for a little steam in the boat.

The lake was so calm like glass. I knew I had to do it. In my pocket was something I’d been hiding. She hadn't noticed it yet, even with part of the packaging hanging out of my pocket. We headed for the narrows. Beautiful and still, the evening was just right. I asked her to marry me. And before I even finished getting the words out, she was nodding yes! Tears of joy were shed, and smiles, and love for one another were not short. We knew right there, we were meant to be. As for the rest, well…I guess we’ll just wait and see, let’s make history.

C&P

Wedding Day

Dance and Drinks