We ask that you wear something semi formal casual, for guys a button down shirt and dress pants, for woman a dress to your knees or floor length or you can wear dress pants with a nice shirt for woman who choose to wear dress pants

We ask that you do not wear dusty blue or any shade of dusty blue, and also dark grey

You will be asked to leave politely by the Groom and Bride.

No there is not, you are all loved by both the groom and bride, so no picking sides. Once the knot is tied we are all family