We met the modern way — on Bumble! Ryan’s profile said he aspired to be Bob from Bob’s Burgers, and since Bumble requires the woman to make the first move, Chenoa couldn’t resist messaging, “I’d love to be your Linda.” A perfectly quirky start to what would become something much more.

When we first met, Ryan came across as quiet and shy, while Chenoa kept the conversation flowing (as she tends to do). Ryan thought she was incredibly nice and was secretly relieved she was doing most of the talking.

Our first date was supposed to be at Terra Nova, but after seeing how long the wait was, we ended up at Skeeters for burgers instead. Ironically, Ryan had only agreed to Terra Nova because Chenoa said her favorite food was seafood, a fact that didn’t come out until later, when she discovered he actually hates seafood. Burgers turned out to be the perfect choice though, tying back to our very first conversation about Bob’s Burgers and marking the start of something special.

Over time, we’ve learned to balance each other out in all the best ways. Chenoa has learned patience for Ryan’s quiet side, and Ryan has opened up revealing a hilarious, kind heart that wins over everyone he meets. We’re opposites in almost every way: Chenoa loves being social, Ryan treasures his alone time. Ryan enjoys camping, while Chenoa (who’s allergic to most of the outdoors) prefers to cheer him on from somewhere with Wi-Fi. Chenoa loves playing pool; Ryan… not so much. But we always show up for each other and that’s what makes us work.

Three years later, during a getaway to a cozy cabin in Penn Yan, NY, Ryan surprised Chenoa with a lakeside proposal. He suggested we take a few photos before packing up to go home, and before Chenoa knew it, he was down on one knee. It was quiet, personal, and absolutely perfect, just like us.

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