Black Tie Optional: "Think of black-tie-optional guest attire as a fusion between black-tie and formal fashion. You can wear a tuxedo or a floor-length evening gown if you want, but a dark suit would be acceptable too. Similarly, a midi cocktail dress would also be appropriate instead of a floor-length gown as attire for the wedding."

The color palette is HYDRANGEAS :)

We love all extensions of you; however, only those named in writing on the invitation are welcome. Additional guests cannot be accommodated.

We love all extensions of you and your family; however, our wedding is a 21+ event. Only those named in writing on the invitation are welcome. Additional guests cannot be accommodated.

Please have your RSVPs submitted for those named in writing on the invitation no later than December 31, 2026.

If we do not get an RSVP by December 31, 2026, we will have to mark you down as NOT ATTENDING. We will miss you celebrating with us; however, we have to provide total guest counts to our venue and vendors in a timely manner and cannot accept late RSVPs because of this. We hope you understand.

Please be sure to notate any food allergies on your RSVP so that we can ensure food safety for all our beloved guests.

The ceremony and reception will be indoors, but the cocktail hour will be outdoors, as long as there is no inclement weather.

Built in 1847, the venue does not have a handicap-access elevator or ramp to the main floor. There are multiple entrances to the building that have fewer steps and a ramp entrance to the bottom floor. If you have mobility issues or concerns, please contact the bride and groom directly.

Cheers! An open bar with beer and wine will be available. Soda, tea, and water will also be available. Outside beverages are not permitted.

Street parking is free on Sundays, but there are additional paid parking areas near the venue and in Downtown Wilmington that include a City of Wilmington Parking Garage and City of Wilmington Surface Lot.

The couple requests that all digital devices, including but not limited to: cell phones, cameras, tablets, and other photo and video recording devices are put away during the ceremony. The bride and groom want you to be fully present with them as they are married. As soon as cocktail hour begins, the couple encourages you to take ALL the photos and videos you would like for the remainder of the evening!

Please dance! If you don't dance, the bride will be sad :(