Wedding Day

The Church of St. Clement

Ceremony

El Paso Country Club

Reception

Our Wedding

In the heart of a shared Bible study session, Connor was captivated when a beautiful girl named Melissa walked through the door. Instantly recognizing a connection, he knew he had to get to know her. Their journey began with friendship, a bond that deepened during a time when Melissa was adjusting to a new city. Late-night phone calls became a comforting routine as they navigated challenges together.On Melissa's birthday, Connor orchestrated a simple yet significant gesture. He sent her a voucher for a free date, and happily, Melissa agreed. Their first date was a delightful experience, filled with laughter and fun, and it was on that memorable day that they shared their first kiss—a moment marking the beginning of something special.Their story unfolded gradually, transitioning from friends to something deeper. It's not about grand gestures but rather the simple joys found in each other's company. From the very beginning, their journey has been one of genuine connection and the happiness of finding someone truly special.As Connor and Melissa reflect on their journey, they recognize the beauty of a story that evolved naturally—from friendship to love and now to a commitment for a lifetime. Their story is a quiet testament to the serendipity of finding the right person at the right time.Warm regards,Connor &amp; Melissa

Our Story

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We are thrilled to have Melissa's nieces Claire and Lauren ("Lolo") as our adorable flower girls. These sweet sisters and best friends are so excited to walk down the aisle in their beautiful dresses and sparkling tiaras, scattering flowers as they go. Energetic Claire and gentle Lolo light up any room they enter with their joy and enthusiasm. Their bond and affection for one another makes our hearts melt. We can’t wait to see their happy, glowing faces as they make their big debut!

Claire & Lauren

Melissa is honored to have her big sister Marika stand by her side as her matron of honor on her wedding day. She has been Melissa's closest companion since they were young girls growing up all over the world as military brats. Having Marika's reassuring presence, dutiful care, and warm smile there with us as we say our vows will comfort and encourage Melissa - her baby sister. We are so grateful to have her as the matron of honor!

Marika Woomer

Meet Aubree Waggoner, the delightful ring bearer of our special day! With a spunky spirit and a heart as soft as petals, Aubree brings an infectious joy to every moment. When she's not busy charming everyone with her smile, you can find her thriving at school or giggling with her friends. As the beloved daughter of Melissa's brother and sister-in-law, Mike and Sarah, Aubree holds a special place in our hearts and in the memories we'll create together on our wedding day. 

Aubree Waggoner

Allow us to introduce Sarah, not just a bridesmaid but a cherished member of our family circle. Married to Melissa's big brother, Sarah is a powerhouse of positivity and determination. With a passion for all things Japan, she immerses herself in its culture, adding a touch of elegance and worldly flair to our lives. Beyond her love for Japanese culture, Sarah's heart belongs to her family above all else. Her daughter and husband hold the key to her soul, and her devotion to them radiates with every smile. As Melissa's sister-in-law, Sarah's unwavering support and willingness to lend a helping hand have been a constant source of comfort and strength.

Sarah Martin

Meet Kelsey, the radiant ray of sunshine gracing our bridal party! As the beloved wife of Connor's oldest brother, Kelsey brings warmth and light wherever she goes. With her outgoing nature and genuine kindness, she effortlessly befriends everyone she meets, spreading joy and laughter along the way. In Kelsey, we find not only a cherished friend but also a loving sister and soon-to-be mother. Let's celebrate this extraordinary woman as she shines brightly by Melissa's side on this joyous occasion.

Kelsey Hjalmquist

Alexandra, fondly known as "Alex" in our circle, is a cherished friend with whom Melissa shares a remarkable journey of friendship. Their bond blossomed in the dynamic environment of a geopolitical consulting firm in Los Angeles, where they first crossed paths after Melissa graduated college. Despite the miles that have occasionally separated them, their friendship has remained steadfast and true. As Melissa embarks on this new chapter of her life, she's honored to have Alex standing by her side as a bridesmaid, a testament to the enduring power of their friendship.

Alexandra Jameson

Introducing Masha, not just a sorority sister but a beacon of unwavering support and boundless positivity in Melissa's life. From the exhilarating highs to the challenging lows, Masha has been a steadfast companion, offering comfort, encouragement, and endless laughter along the way. With her infectious spirit and zest for life, Masha effortlessly lights up any room she enters, infusing every gathering with joy and energy. As the life of the party, her vivacious personality draws others in, creating lasting memories and cherished moments shared among friends. Masha's kindness knows no bounds, and her capacity for compassion and empathy is unmatched. As Melissa prepares to embark on the journey of marriage, she's grateful to have Masha by her side as a bridesmaid, a symbol of their enduring sisterhood and the indelible mark Masha has left on her heart.

Masha Spektor

Introducing Nathan, not just a "bridesman" but a cherished confidant and pillar of support in Melissa's life. Bound by their deep friendship and shared faith, Nathan embodies qualities of compassion, integrity, and unwavering loyalty. Beyond his role as a steadfast friend, Nathan is an avid adventurer with a passion for biking and travel. With a keen interest in space exploration, Nathan's knowledge of SpaceX rivals that of even Elon Musk himself. His enthusiasm for the cosmos is infectious, sparking thought-provoking conversations and igniting curiosity in all who know him.

As Melissa's "bridesman," Nathan stands as a beacon of reliability and strength, symbolizing the enduring bond of their friendship. Together, they've shared countless memories, overcome challenges, and celebrated victories, forming a connection that transcends time and distance.

Nathan Anderson

Connor is thrilled to have Trevor Hines as his right-hand man on this special day. Their bond traces back to their Lincoln Middle School days, where they shared laughter and mischief. Trevor's unwavering loyalty and infectious humor have been constants in Connor's life, brightening even the dullest of days with his explosive personality. With gratitude, we welcome Trevor to stand by our side as Connor's best man, ready to make memories and mischief together once again.

Trevor Hines

Presenting Trevor Hjalmquist, the OG Trevor in Connor's world! Big brother by blood, best friend by choice, Trevor brings the laughter and the love wherever he goes. With a charm as infectious as his goofy grin, he's the ultimate pup-loving, heartwarming hero in our story. Thanks for being the first Trevor to my Connor, and for making every moment a treasure worth treasuring!

Trevor Hjalmquist

Introducing Tyler, not just Connor's eldest brother, but his trusted "homie" since day one. The word "homie" runs as deep as blood between them, so much so that there was even a theme song to commemorate their bond. Tyler transformed Connor's life by showing him the electrifying sounds of AC/DC, sparking an absolute passion for music. Beyond that, Tyler was also Connor's guide in the art of performing mischief, teaching him the ropes and making memories that last a lifetime. Like the guiding line of a Formula 1 track, Tyler's support has been there to steer Connor through life's twists and turns. His unwavering support means the world on this special day.

Tyler Hjalmquist

Introducing Nathaniel Williams, the beat-master extraordinaire! From fraternity pledge parties to music festival dance circles, Nate's been the rhythm to Connor’s rhyme since our college days. Their numerous adventures have taken them to many strange places.  With a deep passion for music, he's not just  a talented DJ/producer; he's a maestro of our memories.  Here's to the guy who turns every event into a concert-worthy celebration!

Nathaniel Williams

Introducing Trey Cardwell, the lifelong friend and muddy buddy extraordinaire! Their friendship traces back to the very first mudslinging session after a rainy day at the Country Club. Those childhood antics soon transformed into high school adventures in the yellow FJ Cruiser. Together, they've chased thrills from muddy fields to dancing in the desert at EDC Las Vegas. Here's to Trey, the muddy buddy who's always ready for the next adventure!

Trey Cardwell

Introducing Graham Bennett, the Jedi ginger and Master Builder of our friendship! From exploring Octopus' Garden to venturing the Star Wars galaxy, Graham and Connor have always had a taste for adventure. Graham's boundless imagination goes beyond his passion for LEGO; it adds a sprinkle of creativity and chaos to every gathering. Here's to Graham, the force-sensitive friend who's always ready to jump into hyperspace on an adventure far, far away!

Graham Bennet

Introducing Danny Lavi, the Pokémon collecting master and ultimate loyal friend! From our very first practice on the Coronado Swim Team freshman year, our friendship blossomed amidst the chlorine and waves. Known for causing ripples of laughter and chaos, whether at the annual Lubbock trip or in our daily capers.  When he's not making waves or plotting our next endeavor, you'll find Danny tending to the most impressive Pokémon collection. With Danny's support at the wedding, the day is sure to be graded as a certified PSA 10. Nothing is more assuring than having a Charizard at your side.

Danny Lavi

Wedding Party

Q + A

The Hotel Paso Del Norte was Melissa's first stay in El Paso and has a special place in her heart! Perched on the intersection of states and nations, this 108-year-old historic hotel weaves together a unique blend of Mexican, Texan, and North American cultures to create an experience that is unique and truly represents the “soul of El Paso”. Check out the famous Dome Bar, and brows the list of heads of state and celebrities that have stayed at this iconic location.

Hotel Paso Del Norte, Autograph Collection

At Hotel Indigo El Paso Downtown, mid-century architecture meets contemporary design in the middle of a bustling West Texas metropolis formed on a lively blend of Mexican and American culture. The hotel mixes El Paso history — our building was once home to the 1960s-era Downtowner Motor Inn — with the spirit of today’s downtown. You can grab an award-winning craft cocktail from Circa 1963 while cooling off in the fifth-floor outdoor pool which features panoramic views of Downtown El Paso and our sister city, Ciudad Juarez, Chihuahua.

Hotel Indigo El Paso Downtown, an IHG Hotel

At Aloft El Paso Downtown, you can look forward to dry cleaning/laundry services, a bar, and a 24-hour gym. The onsite restaurant, Re:Fuel, features happy hour. Free in-room WiFi and a business center are available to all guests.&nbsp;

Connor & Melissa

Connor & Melissa

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