Clemson Bros. Brewery

Welcome Party / Rehearsal Dinner

The Barn at Villa Venezia

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour

Reception

Summer

Our Wedding

Conor and Rob’s journey began like many modern love stories—online. Neither remembers which app, but they both recall that their initial connection wasn’t immediate. However, Rob’s persistence paid off. After following each other on Instagram, Rob asked Conor out. When Conor had to cancel their first date, Rob didn’t give up and suggested they reschedule. A week later, they finally met. Their first date started with dinner and drinks, and conversation flowed effortlessly. They laughed so much that time quite literally stopped—Conor’s analog watch froze mid-dinner. After dinner, they strolled through a mall and ended up at a vinyl record store, where Conor found Pink’s Beautiful Trauma album. Rob mentioned his favorite song, “What About Us,” which Conor wasn’t familiar with at the time, but something about the moment felt like a sign, so he bought the album. The pair had been so caught up in each other that they nearly missed the movie, a moment they later laughed about—how time truly seemed to stop when they were together. For Conor, it took a bit of time to fully open up, but everything changed on a memorable date to Howe Caverns. As they held hands deep inside the cave, the tour guide introduced them to a local legend. There’s a translucent calcite heart on the ground at the Bridal Altar, and according to tradition, if you stand on it, you’ll be married within a year. Looking at Rob and then at that heart, Conor felt like he was glimpsing into their future—a future full of love and adventure. So, naturally, he grabbed Rob’s hand, pulled him onto the heart, and kissed him, sealing their destiny. The rest of the tour group cheered, and less than a year later, that legend came true. Rob realized that Conor was "the one" during that same date at Howe Caverns. Initially cautious, Rob soon felt a deep sense of safety and comfort with Conor. Standing on the heart made Rob realize just how connected they were. From that moment on, he knew it was love in its purest form. Before Rob moved to Colorado for a new job, the couple decided to give long-distance a try. But before leaving, Rob planned a special day at Warwick Winery with Conor’s family. While wandering through the vineyard, they found themselves in a field near a horse pasture. Conor, holding both a gin lemonade and water, was completely unaware of what was about to happen. Distracted by an ivory-white horse, Conor had no idea Rob was about to propose. After a reminder from his brother about his horse allergy, Conor walked back toward Rob, only for Rob to drop to one knee and ask him the most important question of his life. Stunned, Conor threw his drinks to free his hands and said yes, with their families watching. The day ended with a beautiful engagement dinner with both families, making the moment even more special. Rob’s patience and unwavering support balance Conor’s vibrant energy. Rob always wakes Conor with a kiss in the morning, and when he returns from work, he immediately drops everything to give Conor a hug. These small, daily gestures symbolize the steady love and care they share. Conor loves how Rob makes him feel safe, grounded, and believed in, and since being with Rob, Conor has become a better version of himself, constantly supported by Rob’s encouragement. Rob admires Conor’s ambition, especially his closeness to his family. When Conor talks about his brothers, his eyes light up, a bond that Rob respects and aspires to in his own family. Together, they’ve built countless memories—from surviving a 28-hour road trip (without disaster!) to moving across the country. Their relationship has been a mix of adventure, personal growth, and unwavering commitment. It’s poetic to think that on their very first date, Conor’s watch literally stopped. Time seemed to pause as they got lost in conversation and laughter. It felt like a sign—just like the Pink song What About Us, which foreshadowed the journey they would take together. The song’s lyrics speak to love, trust, and finding answers—fitting for their story of navigating life’s uncertainties and trusting in their journey. As the song says, “It's the start of us, waking up,” and that’s exactly how it feels for Conor and Rob—like they’ve both woken up to the life they’re meant to live, side by side, forever.

What About Us

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Conor's Entourage

Conor is surrounded by a mix of family and lifelong friends who have been by his side through it all. His brothers Eoin and Quinn will stand as Best Men, each bringing their own humor and heart to the day. Joining them are his sister-in-laws Shannon and Michelle, as well as his best friend Heather, who has known Conor for over 25 years. Together, they form a close-knit crew, full of love, laughter, and plenty of stories.

The middle Hughes brother, Quinn brings order and class to the wedding party. As a project manager, he’s got everything under control—even Conor.

Quinn Hughes

Conor’s youngest brother, Eoin is always ready with a joke and a smile. A sheriff by day, comedian by night, he’s here to keep the laughs coming!

Eoin Hughes

Sweet, kind, and always lending a helping hand, Shannon's smile and quick wit brighten any room!

Shannon Hughes

Michelle, is the life of the party with boundless energy, a sharp sense of humor, and a serious love for her cats!

Michelle Hughes

Conor’s best friend for over 25 years, Heather is a writer who knows all of Conor’s best (and most embarrassing) stories—watch out for those speeches!

Heather Powderly

Rob's Entourage

Rob’s wedding party is led by his spirited siblings, Nikki and Tricia, who bring endless energy and fun as Matron and Maid of Honor. Rounding out the group are his college friends Jared, Janzten, and Brian, each adding their own unique flair to the festivities. This crew is a reflection of Rob’s adventurous, fun-loving spirit, and they’ll make sure his big day is nothing short of unforgettable.

Rob’s oldest sibling, Nikki is a nurse who lights up any room with her infectious energy and fun-loving spirit.

Nikki Harden

The wild middle sibling, Tricia’s athletic skills are unmatched—so are her cheerleading moves! She’s the coach everyone wants but can’t keep up with.

Tricia Leet

A college buddy of Rob’s, Jared is always polished and composed, with a fun streak that’ll make sure the party is never too dull. He loves to quote movies!

Jared Shepard

Adventurous and self-aware, Janzten’s college days with Rob were full of good times—and he’s still bringing that same adventurous spirit.

Jantzen Rogalski

Rob’s fun and quirky friend from college, Brian is equal parts humorous and quick. He knows the sports updates before ESPN shares them!

Brian English

The Puppy of Honor

Sierra is our sweet, playful pup and the honorary "paw-ty" member of the wedding! Born in January 2024, she’s a German Shepherd and Austrian Cattle Dog mix who loves adventures, her kong toy, and her cozy spot on the couch. When she’s not herding her friends at the dog park, she’s busy being the little princess of the house. Keep an eye out—Sierra’s sure to steal some hearts on the big day!

Sierra

Wedding Party

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Guest Transportation

We’ve arranged transportation between the hotel and the venue to make your evening as seamless and fun as possible! Pick-Up to the VenueShuttles will depart from the Courtyard Marriott (24 Crystal Run Crossing, Middletown, NY) to The Barn at Villa Venezia at:5:00 PM5:15 PMPlease arrive a few minutes early to ensure an on-time departure. The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:30 PM. Return to the HotelReturn shuttles will leave The Barn at Villa Venezia back to the Courtyard Marriott at:11:00 PM11:15 PM11:30 PM We strongly encourage guests staying at the Courtyard Marriott to use the shuttle service so you can fully enjoy the evening without worrying about transportation. If you’re staying at the Hampton Inn Middletown (20 Crystal Run Crossing), it’s just a quick 1–2 minute walk over to the Marriott to catch the shuttle. Let us know if you have any questions—we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Accomodations

This is the hotel where Conor and Rob will be staying.(Fully Booked)

Courtyard Middletown Goshen

This hotel is a 1-2 minute walk away from the Marriot.

Hampton Inn Middletown

Transportation

Start at Penn Station, NYC: Take the NJ Transit train to Secaucus Junction.Transfer at Secaucus Junction: Board the NJ Transit Port Jervis Line towards Middletown, NY.Arrive at Middletown Station: The train ride will take about 1 hour and 45 minutes to 2 hours.From Middletown Station, you can take a taxi or rideshare service to The Barn.

Conor & Robert

Conor & Robert

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