The happy couple, who don’t have a drop of Italian blood between them, have decided to fully embrace the Italian custom of “busta” for their upcoming wedding.

In a move that has both confused and delighted their friends and family, Charlie and Courtney humbly ask that folks err on the side of stuffing an envelope full of cash (or donating to the funds below) in lieu of one of the items on the Amazon registry.

While all their guests are welcome to engage with the registry as they see fit (and really, their presence is more than enough), who doesn’t want to pretend they’re going to Connie Corleone’s wedding?