While this hotel is further away from Wilmington, it is more conveniently located to the venue and at a great rate!
As far as hotels in Surf City, your options are very limited since it is still a small southern beach town. Our recommendation is to get a group together and rent an AirbNb or VRBO on Surf City Beach ( Or south Topsail Island). There is a trolley that goes from houses in Surf City to the venue, and you will be alot closer to the festivities!
Though this hotel is about 30 minutes from the venue, it is great for those of you who are on vacation in addition to attending the wedding. With ocean views and hotel accommodations, this is a great option. Just don't forget to plan for your uber in advance!