Rehearsal and Rehearsal Dinner

The Gardens at Monji

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Spring

Our Wedding

....IN THE BEGINNING....It all started with a few clicks on Match.com - proof that algorithms can get it right sometimes.Dani was immediately drawn to James's kind eyes and witty humor. He was engaging, inquisitive, and refreshingly direct -- the kind of guy who actually follows through on what he says. (Even if it means hiking up a hill just to find enough reception to call and say goodnight!) They shared many of the same interests but also had different eclectic hobbies that were their own.After weeks of talking - and what Dani says was James's attempt of a "sneaky interview" - he drove from Santa Margarita to Bakersfield for their first date at the Buena Vista Museum of Natural History. Between joking about riding the taxidermy tigers and laughing at the questionable specimen labels, it was clear they were having a blast. The evening ended with a tour of Bakersfield, some light teasing about James's "grandpa driving", dinner at Woolgrowers, and a late-night card game that lasted for hours and sealed the deal: this was something special.When it was Dani's turn to visit, the adventure level turned up a notch. Rain had washed out the ranch roads, but that didn't stop her. Determined to make an impression (and prove she could pack light), she hiked a mile up a slippery, muddy hill - in completely the wrong shoes - with only a backpack. If that's not commitment, what is?.............FIRST COMES LOVE...............Dani knew she was falling for James early on. But by their first Valentine's Day, she knew he was falling too -- he just hadn't realized it yet. During a karaoke night with friends, James disappeared for a bit, and when Dani went looking for him, she saw him walking back with a rose in his hand........THEN COMES MARRIAGE (THE PROPOSAL STORY)........Now, the original proposal plan was brilliant - and completely sabotaged by accident. James had been secretly coordinating with the Buena Vista Museum (yep, back to where it all began). His plan: cross the rope barrier, "ride" the tiger, and propose when Dani inevitably tried to stop him. Romantic, funny, very on brand. Except...on the way there, Dani suggested a detour. Ÿou've never seen the Kern County Museum!" she said. And just like that, James's grand plan went up in museum dust.Fast forward to January 11th, 2025.The scene: their new home. Dani's son Aiden was visiting from college and hosting some friends for a fish fry and game night. Her other son, Calvin, was at his high school formal. James and Dani were enjoying the night - a few games, a couple of drinks, and lots of laughter. James, usually calm and composed, gets adorably mushy after a beer or two, and Dani was ready for his sweet talk.In the middle of some witty banter, Dani teased, "I know something you can practice," and pulled him aside to a corner of their room and told him, "You should practice getting on one knee and just tell me some mushy stuff".But James's brain works in mysterious (and hilarious) ways. Instead of getting romantic, he suddenly blurted, "I need to tell the boys the cookies are ready!" and took off. Dani, equal parts confused and unimpressed, rolled her eyes and jokingly flipped him the bird.That's when James said, "Stay right there. Dont. Move."Challenge accepted. Dani froze mid-eye roll, hand still up in full sass mode.When James returned, he gently took her face in his hands (yes, still mid-eye-roll) and said, "I don't have to practice anything." Then, right there in their cozy home - while she was giving the most iconic reaction pose of all time - he got down on one knee, poured out his heart, and asked her to be his wife. Completely stunned and overflowing with joy, Dani said yes - about a million times.To this day, James still teases her about that pose, and Dani swears that no proposal has ever been more "them" - perfectly imperfect, silly, full of laughter, and absolutely unforgettable.............HAPPILY EVER AFTER................The adventurous chapters that follow are full of nightly laughter, witty banter, teamwork, and plenty of projects and game nights together. Most of all, loving each other is easy - peaceful, joyful, and full of heart. To celebrate and solidify that love in front of the people they care about most is the greatest joy of all, and marks the start of the newest (and best) chapter in their story and forever adventure together.

There and Back Again...The Sfregola's Love Story

Our Story

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Morgan Hall

Dane Jacobs

Samantha Prindle

Mike Sfregola

Summer Ashby

Dave Flannery

Christy Carter

Chris Bollinger

Laura Comstock

Gary Irvin

Richard Carter

Nick Sfregola

Aiden Smith

Calvin Smith

Wyatt Hall

Walker Hall

Ryker Prindle

Louise Sfregola

Walker Jacobs

Diane Pereira

Coni Craig

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Last Day to Book: February 20th, 2026$149 + taxes per night for a 2 Queen Studio Suite$142 + taxes per night for a King Studio Suite

Home2 Suites by Hilton - Bakersfield

Hyatt Place - Bakersfield

Meadows Field Airport has nonstop flights on United Airlines to San Francisco (SFO) and Denver (DEN), or American Airlines to Phoenix (PHX) and Dallas (DFW)

Meadows Field Airport

Travel

WE WANT ALL OF OUR GUESTS TO ARRIVE HOME SAFELY!

Complimentary shuttle services will be provided to and from the venue for guests staying at the following hotels only: Home2SuitesHyatt Shuttles TO the venue will run continuously from 3pm to 4pm and from 9:30pm-10:30pm AFTER the event. If you are unable to safely drive after the reception and are not staying at one of the hotels mentioned above, please utilize Uber and Lyft as needed to ensure that you get home safely.

Transportation Services

Lots of fun options for all ages. Bowling, Beer Garden, Arcade, Laser Tag, Billiards, Ropes Course, Private Karaoke Rooms, Sports Viewing.

The BLVD

This is where we had our first date and where James ALMOST proposed (until Dani accidentally sabotaged it)! A fun little museum that is informative and slightly comical (you will have to check it out to understand why).

Buena Vista Museum of Natural History and Science

A nearby movie theatre experience. Reserve your seats and order dinner and drinks while you watch your movie of choice!

Studio Movie Grill

The best ice cream spot in town since 1909! Be sure to try the taffy chews and order a "Black and White" or "Black and Tan"!

Danielle & James

Danielle & James

D&J

Wedding Day