There is a fair amount of Air B&B’s in the area that would make a great option. We recommend staying in the valley area (Buellton, Solvang, Santa Ynez, Los Olivos)
Where to fly in?
Santa Barbara Regional is ~40 mins away, you can rent a car there. That will be the best option San Luis Obispo so closer to a hour away but also I great option to fly into