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Deanna & Nathan

March 24, 2022 • Camarillo, CA

Deanna & Nathan

March 24, 2022 • Camarillo, CA

How we Met

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We are so excited to celebrate this special day with you!


We can't believe we have been together almost 5 years at this point and due to the pandemic, had to reschedule and delay our plans (and hopefully we don't have to do it again!) to have our wedding.


It might not be public knowledge BUT Nathan and I did meet online. A few things were a little nutty about what led up to our meeting:



1. We met on a fairly unknown site called Tinder.


2. Both of us did not willingly sign ourselves up on that site, I was signed up by a few of my friends having just broken up with someone, and Nathan was pressured by friends to put himself on the site. We were BOTH not the types to be on a site such as that.


3. My friends were the ones that officially swiped right on him! (Right? or is it Left?) Nathan had NO info on his profile. (Gasp!) Only a few pictures.


4. Nathan reached out to me through Tinder messages with a quote from The Office. "What would ya say you do here?" and I laughed.


5. Within two days of corresponding on Tinder, Nathan asked to meet me and we set up a date to meet at Pedalers Fork and have a refreshing beverage.


6. I almost didn't go. Hold on! I wasn't going to stand him up. . .but I thought of rescheduling or backing out completely but I would have contacted him. . .geesh.


7. After our first meeting, we haven't not talked a day since. :-)

Who Really Said Those Three Words First?

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So, Nathan will tell you that he kind of said them first but in a hidden-in-a-sentence way and in non-verbal ways. Don't worry, non-verbal is G-rated. Nathan used to look at me and give me a long blink. He also used to say things like "I love you kissing me." Which when he first said things like that would make me ponder. . . and he told me there was a reason he wanted to take the picture above in this way. . .but ALAS! It was I who uttered those words first, officially.


I had this urge one day while at work and called him to tell him. I'm glad he didn't answer. Because those words deserve to be said for the first time in person. So that night, as he was making me dinner at his place, I told him I needed to tell him something. I looked at him and said "I love you." But, before the "yuh" in "you" was out, he immediately said he loved me. :-)

Our Engagement

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Nathan told me for my birthday he and the kids were taking me to Pedalers Fork (where we first met) for brunch with his family. When I walked in, I saw my family too and thought "Wow, he called everyone!" I had NO idea that it was to propose, I just thought he had gotten everyone together for my birthday. As I finished saying my "hellos" to everyone, before I could set my Harry Potter backpack and huge water bottle down or even take off my puffy black ski-like jacket, I turned to see him kneeling. I was very surprised and loved that he planned that day so well and while he told me he was nervous, he never showed it all. In the picture here, we are sitting in the exact seats at the bar that we sat on on our first meeting. :-)

Deanna made her debut.

January 27, 1980

Deanna made her debut.
Nathan entered this world! :-)

July 12, 1980

Nathan entered this world! :-)
While this pic is NOT the actual day we met it was the first picture we took together.

May 01, 2017

While this pic is NOT the actual day we met it was the first picture we took together.
Nathan threw me a Michael Jackson themed party. I wish more of you could have seen this guy. When I got to  his house that day, I was unloading my car and saw this weird guy strike a pose at the end of the parking lot before walking toward me. I was thinking "Who is this creepy guy walking toward me. . .OMG. . . it's NATHAN !!" I was laughing so hard I almost. . .well you can imagine.  He proceeded to do MJ moves all night even for my friends.

January 27, 2018

Nathan threw me a Michael Jackson themed party. I wish more of you could have seen this guy. When I got to his house that day, I was unloading my car and saw this weird guy strike a pose at the end of the parking lot before walking toward me. I was thinking "Who is this creepy guy walking toward me. . .OMG. . . it's NATHAN !!" I was laughing so hard I almost. . .well you can imagine. He proceeded to do MJ moves all night even for my friends.
This is the day I met my soon-to-be step kids! I can't believe it was so long ago! Ella, was just 3 years old and immediately said "I like your dress." and within an hour, William who was 5, ran up to me randomly and gave me a hug. However, this kid was very perceptive, he kept giving us a questioning side eye all day that day!

August 25, 2018

This is the day I met my soon-to-be step kids! I can't believe it was so long ago! Ella, was just 3 years old and immediately said "I like your dress." and within an hour, William who was 5, ran up to me randomly and gave me a hug. However, this kid was very perceptive, he kept giving us a questioning side eye all day that day!
One of our first holiday outings all together to Underwood Farms Pumpkin Patch!

October 27, 2018

One of our first holiday outings all together to Underwood Farms Pumpkin Patch!
We fell in love with Big Bear. It was the perfect trip to set off the Christmas season that year complete with sparkling snow. Thanks to my parents for making this happen!

December 01, 2018

We fell in love with Big Bear. It was the perfect trip to set off the Christmas season that year complete with sparkling snow. Thanks to my parents for making this happen!
Little did we know, this would be the last time at Disneyland for awhile. . .and poor Nathan was super sick which I didn't realize until he told me days later. We suspect it may have been The Covid but who knows. . .

December 01, 2019

Little did we know, this would be the last time at Disneyland for awhile. . .and poor Nathan was super sick which I didn't realize until he told me days later. We suspect it may have been The Covid but who knows. . .
Christmas Eve service at Calvary. Such a beautiful time. . .

December 24, 2019

Christmas Eve service at Calvary. Such a beautiful time. . .
New Year's Eve at the Reagan library! It was a glamorous event with a live band and a black and white checkered dance floor. We would return back here 7 months later to celebrate Nathan's bday to see a Beatles tribute band!

December 31, 2019

New Year's Eve at the Reagan library! It was a glamorous event with a live band and a black and white checkered dance floor. We would return back here 7 months later to celebrate Nathan's bday to see a Beatles tribute band!
Engaged!

January 12, 2020

Engaged!
This is 40. :-)

January 27, 2020

This is 40. :-)
3 days before the official lockdown and 5 days before it started raining for two weeks straight, we moved in together. I became a stepmom overnight and Nathan and I both became teachers during remote learning, and while I got used to working remotely, Nathan completely changed his career! A challenging but adventurous year for sure!

March 12, 2020

3 days before the official lockdown and 5 days before it started raining for two weeks straight, we moved in together. I became a stepmom overnight and Nathan and I both became teachers during remote learning, and while I got used to working remotely, Nathan completely changed his career! A challenging but adventurous year for sure!
First Halloween as a family.

October 31, 2020

First Halloween as a family.
Found our wedding venue!

November 13, 2020

Found our wedding venue!
Spring Brunch!

May 02, 2021

Spring Brunch!
Summer 2021, chilling in my mom and dad's backyard on their new outdoor swing.

June 20, 2021

Summer 2021, chilling in my mom and dad's backyard on their new outdoor swing.
Our FIRST Bridal Expo! I say first in big letters because while I may want to attend more. . .I think Nathan may bow out of those. . .LOL! But seriously, I felt very lucky to have not only Nathan there but my parents to share in a very special day.

August 01, 2021

Our FIRST Bridal Expo! I say first in big letters because while I may want to attend more. . .I think Nathan may bow out of those. . .LOL! But seriously, I felt very lucky to have not only Nathan there but my parents to share in a very special day.