Wedding Day

David's Country Inn

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

It all started on Hinge .... Chris and Deven matched based off of mutual likings of margaritas and tacos. Once the match was made a conversation eventually submerged. After weeks of talking on the app and exchanging social media the two finally decided to set up their first date. Sadly that first date was cancelled by Deven and Chris was not happy about it. That turn of events resulted in the two not speaking to one another for a few months. But one day Deven decided to reach out via Instagram message when she saw Chris at a wedding for a person she knew. The messages started lightly, then over the course of 2 weeks they became more often. Which then allowed Deven to go in for the kill and request a "redo" of their first date. After some persuading Chris eventually gave in and the two set up a date at Sharkys for drinks and wings, followed by a Haunted house. The date was everything they expected it to be. But after their second date was over, Deven was debating if she saw him more as a goofy "friend" or someone she could potentially fall in love with. Weeks went by and Deven finally gave in to a 3rd date. Once that third date took place, Chris saw Deven every single night that week which allowed Deven to fall in love with Chris without even realizing. Fast forward months of spending quality time together, Chris made things "official" and ever since then things were never the same. Here we are, two strangers on an app not thinking much would come from it, falling in love more and more each day with their amazing blended family.

How it all began ...

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"With great power comes great responsibility" -Spider-Man. When Brian is not busy being the best man, he is out saving the world one spandex suit at a time. Brian is not only a great brother and uncle, but an incredible lego connoisseur. Chris feels honored that his little brother will be there to share his big day.

Brian Torres

Long time lover of the NETS and long time IR player with a torn ACL. DJ AKA Babamm has been long-time friend to Chris for over 21 years and is as loyal as they come. Danny is someone Chris knows he can always trust and be there. Danny is a great God father to Giselle and also a phenomenal father to Brielle. 

Danny Jhaman

Being the cousin to the Groom is not the only reason Chris loves him so much. The bond they built became more like brothers where they were always competing against each other pulling all-nighters playing Halo. Although Chris claims to be the champ, we know who the real champ is. Regardless Chris is ecstatic to have Anthony by his side and will always cherish how great of a friend he is.

Anthony Rivera

"A good coach can change a game, a great coach can change a life." Steve is not only a great role model to his team the Lodi Rams, but also to his beautiful daughter Elena. But long before responsibilities kicked in, Steve could be found throwing the best parties in his basement, while performing Vivir Mi Vida. The Groom could say he is the next Marc Anthony, or the next Wisin Y Yandel. He is a supportive friend and Chris will always cherish their friendship.

Steve

Besides running marathons, Christian dedicates his time taking care of his patients. Christian is the kind of person who sets his heart on a goal and will always achieve it. He is also a great friend that will always make himself available no matter what country he is traveling in. When Christian moved from the Philippines the Groom instantly wanted to become friends because he admired the amount of dedication and gel Christian put into his spikes on his hair. 

Christian

Lorenzo aka Renzo with the Benzo is an absolute lover boy, and the son to the Bride to be Deven. Lorenzo is all about a good party and can’t wait to dance all night at his Mamas wedding! You can find LJ being the life of the party by being super social and silly. Thankfully he fully approves of his step-dad Chris because they bonded over farting and being the goofiest in the room. Lorenzo is the heart a soul of the Bride and cannot wait to walk down the aisle with his Mama to celebrate their beautiful blended family becoming one. 

Lorenzo Ledesma

Besides being knows as a kick a** mom to two perfect boys, she is an incredible wedding planner and DOC. Steph aka "Step on me burgers" used to spend her days left behind at the Burger King parking lot. Steph has known the bride since they first bonded over name belts and Jersey dresses in middle school over 18 years ago. Steph's childhood home is also the location where the infamous BBP crew was first formed. Playing hookie and hiding in her bedroom was BBPs favorite past time. Now you can catch her crushing it at motherhood, running her own business all while still being an amazing friend to the Bride.

Stephanie Trost

Jan, who only a few years ago got a new identity (this is true), has been a sister to the Bride ever since they met in high school. They were introduced by their boyfriends at the time and immediately connected. They connected so well that that same day they had a sleepover. Clearly Deven had poor judge of character, because Jan could have been a serial killer. But not long after that sleepover did they ditch their boyfriends for their forever relationship together. Jan is a supportive friend that would literally agree with anything just to keep her friends happy, she would do anything but fight (that's Deven's part). Jan is a great mama to "Fia" and is always an amazing supporter. You would be lucky to find yourself a Jan. 

Janissa Diaz

Lyss is probably one of the most well rounded people you'd meet. Any questions the Bride ever had on any subject, Alyssa knows! She is a shark in the HR world and an amazing wife/mama. From the beginning the Bride did not like Alyssa, but once Deven found out Alyssa was from the same stomping grounds, they instantly bonded. Jersey City, their hometown, is where they owe their life long friendship. Alyssa has always backed the Brides big mouth up no matter how ridiculous of a situation Deven got them into. Alyssa is a true Ride or Die and Deven is so lucky to have her in her life. Part of the BBP crew, you could find these two back in the day dancing on bar tops and sneaking out to Rutgers (sorry Mrs. Crincoli). Now you can find her in bed by 9pm cuddling her sweet angel JJ and dog Zeus needing to pre-schedule a bar night months in advance. 

Alyssa Manfredonia

Anya is the Polish Chonga (if that makes sense) of the group and we wouldn't want it any other way. You can hear Anna long before you can see her. If it wasn't for Anna, the customer service we receive would be subpar because she is not afraid to state her issues. Besides her being a great Polish bad word teacher to BBP, she is an incredible mom to Jullia Wulia and Oliva, and an exceptional wife. Anna has built a beautiful life and continues to doing amazing things for her family and friends. Without Anna shit would not get said or done and we love her for that! She is the glue to the BBP crew.

Anna Trost

Maria only knowing the bride a short amount of time, has been nothing but incredible. She is a hard-worker and will always be there for you. Maria is the kind of friend you can call tomorrow and say "pack your bags we're going to the airport" and willing pack up with no questions as to how long or location. Maria is the support system the Bride always needed for her crazy plans and ideas. Maria never judged and only asked "what time should I be ready" knowing damn well she was only going to show up/be ready 2 hours late anyways. But Maria will always show up, you can count on it. Just don't make her you 1 phone call from jail because she also never answers her phone calls.

Maria Matamoros

G is the beautiful daughter to the Groom. She has a huge part in our family. She is a wonderful big sister and step sister. G not only works hard in school but works twice as hard on the field. She is a killer at softball. Playing catcher and short stop is just a small portion of how much power and hard work she brings to the team. Giselle is unstoppable and the Bride is so overjoyed to have her as a positive role model to Lorenzo. He will learn how to play ball, have good sportsmanship and also be a great person because of her. We love G so much and truly blessed to have her in our blended family.

Giselle Torres

Julia Wulia is not only the cutest oldest baby girl of the group, but she is a perfect big sister to Olivia. When she is not out on her Target runs, she is enjoying her donuts and starbucks. She is a girls girl and we love her so much! The Bride cannot wait to see how cute she looks throwing the petals to prepare the aisle.

Julia

Fia is the most talented girl around. She is a dancer, a cheerer and does gymnastics. The Bride had the honor of watching her grow into a beautiful young lady. Deven always knew she wanted Soph to be a part of her big day and is so ecstatic that that day is approaching fast! Soph is going to make a beautiful flower girl.

Sophia

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Please call (973) 770-7880 to book your room under our block C02. If it is not booked under our block there will be no transportation option from the hotel to the venue.

Holiday Inn Express & Suites Mount Arlington-Rockaway Area, an IHG Hotel

You can book the hotel in advance without having to pay. The hotel only requests the card to be on file and the day of they will collect the payment.

Deven & Christopher

Deven & Christopher

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