Doors open at 3:30 pm. We will begin promptly at 4:00 pm to ensure the ceremony happens during sunset.

Yes, the dress code is black tie optional or formal.

One step down from black tie, this dress code indicates men should opt for a tuxedo or dark suit, preferably with a white button-down shirt underneath. Nicer dress shoes are appropriate. Ladies should wear either a floor-length evening gown, a formal pantsuit or a formal (longer hem) cocktail dress. Go for heels rather than wedges or sandals.

To celebrate autumn, we request attendees wear dark or warm tones. Examples include dark or navy blue, black, burgundy, red, orange, yellow, gold, beige, creamy neutrals, brown, tan, dark green and olive.

Our ceremony and reception are child-free. While we love your children, the music setlist and venue are not child-friendly. Consider this a date night, and please plan accordingly.

There will be a 30-second photo-op at the beginning of the ceremony. After that point, please allow our professional photographer and videographer to capture the day.

Option 1: Drive. We recommend this option for the most seamless travel experience. Please note that public transportation around Montauk is not an option. Option 2: Make a reservation ahead of time via the Hampton Jitney Motorcoach service. Once in Montauk, use Uber/Taxi to move between locations. Price point: $65 per Jitney ticket. Option 3: Take the LIRR from Penn Station or Grand Central Station to Montauk. Tickets are available via the MTA Train Time app or at the station. Once in Montauk, use Uber/Taxi to move between locations. Price point: ~$25 per ticket.

Fear not, there's plenty to do during the off-season. See our "Things to do" page for a list of local activities and eateries to make your stay unforgettable.