Dress to impress—but no need for a tux. Think semi-formal: suits, cocktail dresses, or whatever makes you feel fancy and comfortable. (Unless you have a Jets jersey, Trevor will probably let that slide.. don't tell Dora)

We love your little ones—but this night is just for the grown-ups! We hope this gives all the parents a chance to relax, let loose, and enjoy a well-deserved night out.

Unless your invitation specifically includes a guest, we kindly ask that you fly solo. We promise you’ll be in great company!

We recommend staying at the hotel onsite or nearby (details on our “Travel” page). Bonus: No Uber needed if you're staying at Olde Mill Inn!)

Please plan to arrive about 15–30 minutes before the ceremony so you have time to settle in and grab a seat.

We kindly ask that you be present in the moment and refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. We’ve got amazing photographers handling it—your phones can come back out for the party!

The ceremony will take place at St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes, NJ which is about 25 minutes from the reception venue in Basking Ridge. Please allow time for the short drive between locations as there will not be a shuttle.

Absolutely! The celebration continues at the bar in the Grain House—literally on site, so there’s no excuse not to keep the good vibes going. Zach (best man) has the first round!

We are aware that the invitations say reception begins at 5:30. We have made a late decision in pushing back the start of cocktail hour to 6:00pm. But no worries! This gives more time for you to beat Friday Jersey traffic, check in to the hotel, and attend welcome drinks at 5:30!