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Elena & Alan

September 19 2026
Rochester NY

Wedding Day

Saturday, September 19, 2026 at Four-Thirty O'Clock
Reception to follow at Wildwood Country Club.

4:30 PM

Ceremony

Wildwood Country Club
1201 Rush West Rush Rd, Rush, Ny , 14543
Attire: Semi-Formal
We’re so excited to celebrate our special day with our favorite people by our side.

5:00 PM–6:00 PM

Cocktail hour

6:00 PM–10:00 PM

Reception

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Our Story

Our Story

It all began at Elena’s workplace, where Alan would stop in for a haircut—and stay for a scalp massage and facial—just to spend a little extra time with her. From the very beginning, their connection felt effortless, almost as if they had known each other in another lifetime.

Over the next few years, they shared countless stories, laughter, and even a few tears in that chair. Alan quickly became Elena’s favorite client—the one she always looked forward to seeing every couple of weeks. What neither of them realized at the time was how often they were thinking about each other. Elena would catch herself wondering, ‘I think Alan would like this new sweater… I’ll wear it the next time he comes in.’

They say barbers do more than just cut your hair—they become a friend, a confidant, the person you can talk to when life feels heavy. Over time, the conversations between them grew deeper, and they began to realize they wanted something more. The connection they built in the chair felt too meaningful to stay there; it was meant to become something beautiful out in the real world.

On Monday, July 21, 2025, Alan was relieved from work at 8 a.m. and suggested they start the day the way they often did—breakfast and coffee at their favorite spot, Leaf and Bean. It was a perfect summer morning, warm and bright, so they chose a table outside to enjoy the sunshine.

Just as they finished eating, one of the baristas walked out carrying a small bag. ‘Just a little token of our appreciation,’ she said. Elena assumed it was a complimentary muffin, a sweet gesture for two familiar regulars. But inside the bag was a tiny box. Before she could even process what was happening, Alan dropped to one knee and asked her to marry him.

She had known a proposal was coming eventually, but a Monday morning—after Alan had worked a full 24-hour shift—was the last moment she expected. The surprise made it all the more perfect.

Fast forward to today, and they’ve built a beautiful life together. They share a cozy home, one very loved dog, and three mischievous cats—which Alan insists was never part of the plan. They spend their days trying new foods, exploring new places, and curling up on the couch for whatever new horror or thriller they can find.

When you think of soulmates, think of Elena and Alan. Their love is deep, genuine, and unmatched. Their understanding of one another is something truly rare. Beyond their emotional connection, they share an incredible friendship—one that all began with a simple haircut.

And now, surrounded by the people they love most, they’re ready to begin the next chapter of their story—one built on laughter, partnership, and a love that continues to grow every day.

Travel

RIT Inn And Conference Center

5257 West Henrietta Road
585-359-1800
Check-In: Friday, September 18, 2026 | Check-Out: Sunday, September 20, 2026
Rate: $169

Ten guest rooms are available with a mix of king and double beds.

Cut-Off Date: Friday, August 28, 2026
Check-In Time: 3:00pm
Check-Out Time: 11:00am

Please contact the Hotel directly or visit the website for reservations.

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Dress Code

SEMI-FORMAL

Dress to impress while staying comfortable. Fall colors, layers, and polished looks are encouraged. Please leave the jeans, t-shirts and sneakers at home.

FAQ

Will children be able to attend?

While we love your little ones, we are hoping to keep our wedding as an adults-only evening, unless otherwise stated on the invitation. Please reach out directly with any questions.

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