John and Elena met on September 14, 2022 at work in Pearl Harbor, Hawaii. John had just moved to Oahu through the Marine Corps and Elena had moved there a few months earlier through the Air Force. They got to know each other while John was qualifying for his new watch position and Elena was his instructor. Over the course of a few 12-hour shifts, John pretended to love listening to Taylor Swift's then-new album "Midnights" to sit next to and talk to Elena. On their days off, Elena would invite John to go out and do things with her friends as he was new to the island. Though accounts vary, these activities quickly went from group activities to just one on one outings. They have agreed that their first official date was over dinner on November 10, 2022, the Marine Corps Birthday, at Moku Kitchen in Honolulu. After over a year of adventures, John "finally" proposed to Elena on April 6, 2024 at Secret Island near Kualoa Ranch in Hawaii.