Once you've received your invitation, you can RSVP online by October 9th. If I don't have a response by that time then we will mark you as "not attending." Sorry :(

Listed in travel are the two airports we suggest. Which one you choose is up to you. If you are flying in, you will need to either rent a car or coordinate transportation with another guest. --- If you are driving up, I suggest using Google Maps because even I don't remember how to get there.

We have two recommended hotels listed in Travel.

We would prefer it if you were cleaned up and looking nice. We don't need you to be fancy, but there will be a problem if you show up in jeans. Have fun with your look!

If the weather is nice we hope to have the ceremony outside with access to the patio later on. But it's November in Virginia so it could go either way. We suggest you come prepared for the weather.

NO! NOPE. DON’T. You will pay a $500 fee to the venue if you are caught with your own alcohol.

Yes and it's free; this isn't DC thankfully.

No white even though I'm not wearing white. No ballgowns, or tuxedos, or anything overtly fancy. As stated earlier, please just look nice. Our attendants will be wearing a soft green/navy, and the wedding dress is black.

If you have the option on your invite, yes. If you don't have the option, no. You can still ask but we can't guarantee an answer you'll like.

Yes and no. The only kids invited are our niece and nephews. Sorry :(