The dress code is formal. Other than that, choose what you wear, we can't wait to see what you choose!

The ceremony starts at 4:30pm. We are asking guests to start arriving at 4:00 pm.

as much as we would love to give everyone a plus one, we unfortunately don't have the room. When you RSVP on the website, if you are given a +1 it will say "Hi ____, let elly & ethan know who is coming with you!" and hit edit to tell us the name of your +1, or hit "not attending" if you choose not to bring anyone. If you were not given a +1, you will not have this step, but there will be plenty of people there for you to hang out with!

Yes! Free parking is available at Black Iris Estate.

We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning we ask our guests to please put phones away, silence them, and be present in the moment with us as we say I do! This also allows for the photographer to be able to take photos without any objects/phones interfering. Once cocktail hour starts, and during the reception, PLEASE take lots of pictures and be sure to share them with us! We are so excited to see everyone's photos/videos.

The ceremony (weather permitting) will be held outside, behind the white building in the "Willow Chapel". We all know how Indiana weather can be, it's the middle of October so it could either be freezing or 80 degrees, just make sure to dress accordingly incase it is cold :) THE RECEPTION IS INDOORS!

we kindly ask you to rsvp on our wedding website by September 20, 2024, so we can plan accordingly! and we thank you in advance :)