What date should I RSVP by?
February 7, 2026 • Our wedding RSVP is ONLY done here on our website.
Are plus-ones and children allowed?
We're so excited to celebrate this special day surrounded by our closest family and friends. Only those formally invited on your wedding invitation can be accommodated. If you have a plus one, it will be noted on your invitation and when you RSVP.
What is the dress code for the wedding?
We can't wait to see our loved ones all dressed up for our big day! Please join us in your best cocktail attire.
Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 8612 Sage Shadow Drive, Lakeside, CA 92040.
• There will be a wedding card box at our reception.
• If you’d like to make a contribution toward our honeymoon fund (Antigua here we come!), you can contribute through the registry for a small processing fee, or you can Venmo us directly at: @emerilynn (the last four digits of Emeri’s number are 9069 if it asks for it).
Wedding registry?
Check out the "Registry" tab here on our wedding website!
What's the wedding day itinerary?
Our wedding will take place at Grand Tradition Estate & Gardens on Saturday, March 7, 2026. The ceremony will begin at 3:30pm sharp, followed by cocktail hour and the reception, which will wrap at midnight.
Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?
We kindly ask that you keep our wedding ceremony "unplugged" and refrain from taking photos or videos during our wedding ceremony. We want our guests to truly be in the moment with us during this special day.
Once cocktail hour begins, feel free to take as many photos or videos as you want! We'd love to see our wedding reception through your eyes!
Do you have a wedding hashtag?
Yes! Our wedding hashtag is #HappilyEverRaftery. It'll also be posted around the venue for your convenience.
Transportation/Hotel Q+A
Will there be transportation between the hotel and the venue?
Yes! Information coming soon...
What is the easiest way to get to and from the wedding venue?
For guests within driving distance of the venue, there is free on-site parking. The venue allows overnight parking if you decide that driving home isn't a great idea at the end of the night.
There will be a shuttle running between the hotels and the venue as well.
Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?
We have reserved room blocks at The Westin Carlsbad and Courtyard San Diego Carlsband.
Check out “Travel” here on our website.
Venue Q+A
Is the venue wheelchair accessible?
Yes! There is also a golf cart available to help guests move around the property if needed.
Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?
Both! Our ceremony and cocktail hour will both be held outdoors. Our reception will be held indoors. Please plan accordingly.
What is the weather and climate like in the area?
The weather is generally mild and pleasant in Fallbrook in the spring. Temperatures should be in the upper-60s to mid-70s. There should be plenty of sunshine and moderate humidity.
In the event of rain, the ceremony will be moved indoors.
Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies?
Yes! Please indicate your specific dietary need when you RSVP.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes! You will be greeted with champagne upon arrival. Open bar will begin with Cocktail Hour and will remain hosted until 11pm.