Wedding planning can be an overwhelming endeavor, as many of you already know. The sheer number of details to consider can quickly add up, and before you know it, the costs can skyrocket. In fact, the average wedding in America costs around $30,000—and that doesn't even include the honeymoon! Expenses can range from church and reception hall rentals to wedding arch and chair rentals, flower arrangements, invitations, wedding gowns, tuxedo rentals, alterations, champagne, bands, DJs, photographers, hairdressers, makeup artists, cakes, rings, and so much more. And let's not forget about the food!
Sometimes, it feels like the best way to afford a wedding nowadays is to place it in a movie budget. Remember all those fabulous wedding movies we've grown up with? Take, for instance, the "Paris In Springtime" scene from Madea's Family Reunion, complete with an Eiffel Tower replica in the backdrop and live human beings dressed as angels complete with halos and harps, suspended in mid-air.
Or how about the movie Father of the Bride? While the original starred Spencer Tracy and Elizabeth Taylor, most people fondly remember the remake with Steve Martin as the uptight father and Martin Short as the over-the-top wedding coordinator—truly hilarious!
Coming to America with Eddie Murphy was a wedding movie (lest we forget)! Who could forget the grand entrance of Princess Imani Izzi, played by the stunning Vanessa Bell Callaway, with her 100-foot train on that gold-laced wedding gown? And let's not forget Oha, the royal balladeer, who sang, "She's Your Queen!" Coming to America was so fabulous, it had two separate wedding scences written into the script!
I wonder if any of these sets are still available for rent? Would that be a great idea?
Ultimately, whether a wedding is large or small, the most important aspect is celebrating it with loved ones. Having a community that supports you and prays for your marriage to thrive and flourish is what truly matters. Amidst the whirlwind of planning and details, it's crucial to remember that the essence of a wedding is the love and commitment I share with my partner and the support from our community. In many of the weddings I've officiated, my prayer has always been that the marriage itself is far better than the wedding day (and I prayed that would be fabulous too), and that the community continues to support the couple throughout their journey together.
What's your favorite wedding movie or movie scene? Be sure to share.