Wedding Day

The Palace Of Fine Arts

Banksy  Exhibit

Ceremony

E&O Kitchen and Bar

Cocktail Hour

Lunch

Winter

Our Wedding

Evita and Marfel's story began 25 years ago in 1996 at Westmoor High School in Daly City, California. Even though they did not have any classes together, the two became immediate friends. At the end of their senior year, both promised to stay in touch - a promise they each kept. Despite the interventions of archaic technology, college, and life, the two remained in contact throughout the years. In 2015, Evita invited Marfel to her housewarming party. As sometimes happens, both were interested in moving their relationship beyond a platonic friendship but they were both concerned about harming the friendship they both cherished so neither made a move, a decision they both regretted at the time. Many years later, the two reconnected just as the covid-19 pandemic slowed the world down. Since then, they seized every opportunity to strengthen their friendship with the hopes of developing something more. Marfel drove almost every week to San Francisco from Concord to share craft beers and whisky while social distancing at Dolores Park. “The best relationships start off as friendships first.” - Author Unknown The chemistry between Evita and Marfel is undeniable, a sentiment their family and friends equally share to this day and it’s firmly, deeply rooted in friendship, which allowed them to get to know each other authentically. Without the pressure of impressing the other they were able to learn about and love each other, faults and all. Evita and Marfel value this friendship as the foundation for their love: Beyond physical attraction, beyond eros, this basis of philia - of deep friendship - is one of established commitment and common interests. After countless shared love songs, mutual love of art and conversation, this beautiful friendship blossomed into a loving relationship. The love they have for one another is a collaborative work of art which continues to overcome anything and anyone who attempts to paint over it.&nbsp; On December 18th, 2021, Marfel and Evita will honor their relationship, making the greatest personal commitment possible to one another. Family and friends who have been invited to witness this joyous occasion have known each bride for more than a decade. Just as with each other, philia is the soil Evita and Marfel use to cultivate all their close relationships and they’re excited to share their joy with you all.

25 Years and Beyond

Our Story

Photos

Marfel and Jason met over 13 years ago. Jason has been her support system and one of her confidants. She often seeked his advice about work, relationships and everything in between. Above all, Jason gave Marfel the courage to become more comfortable in her own skin. So when planning their non-traditional wedding ceremony, there was no one else she wanted to officiate this wonderful occasion. 

Jason Miller

Evita and Grace have been best friends since 1996 and have shared each milestone in their lives with one other: Birthdays, holidays, and now, each other’s wedding day. Grace is more than just a loyal and trusted friend: She is her rock, her sister, and an angel to all. Grace holds Evita accountable for her actions, keeps her grounded, and never fails to remind her of her worth in this world. She has seen Evita at her worst, and now she can bear witness to her happiness. 

Grace Mendoza

“Lots of people want to ride with you in a limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down”. Marfel and Regan have not shared a limo (yet), but they have taken planes, trains, and automobiles together. In their 16 years of friendship, the two have had their fair of stories they should only share with one another. Regan is one of the few people in this world who will tell Marfel when she is not being the best version of herself, but also remind her she deserves the very best.

Regan Cain

Wedding Party

Q + A

Please allow ample time to arrive. Street parking and public parking available.

Street parking and parking lot structure right next to the restaurant on Sutter Street.

Evita & Marfel

Evita & Marfel

Travel

The Palace Of Fine Arts

E&O Kitchen and Bar

The Donatello