Fernando & Kati

April 26, 2025 • New Providence, PA

Fernando & Kati

April 26, 2025 • New Providence, PA

Library Girl & DVD Guy

Picture of Library Girl & DVD Guy

Many of you have heard our special story that started it all, but for those of you who haven’t, you can read it below!


It was July 13, 2023. Fernando (DVD Guy) had recently begun to work as a probation officer. That morning, he went through his pepper spray training — meaning he had literally been pepper sprayed in the face. After being cleared to drive safely home, he decided to take a detour to the local library to rent DVD’s he could watch at home, something he'd become very familiar doing over the past several years.


Fernando entered the library and began to look through the movies, deciding which ones he wanted to rewatch. Then he noticed Kati (Library Girl), who'd been working at this library for the past seven years, walk by on her way to take photos for an idea she'd just had for an Instagram Reel. Fernando noticed the new tattoo she had on her right arm, a brain and a heart with flowers around it. He complimented Kati on the beautiful tattoo, and the two continued talking for the next forty(ish) minutes.


Finally Fernando, who was too nervous to ask Kati for her number, clapped his hands and said “welp, let me get back to the DVDs.” Kati was surprised since there seemed to have been some chemistry between them, but now she felt unsure. So the two went back to what they were originally doing — Kati to her work, and Fernando to his DVDs.


Upon selecting his movies and checking out, Fernando was on his way out the door when he stopped. He felt a nudge — which he now believes was God — urging him to go back and ask Kati for her number. He turned around and went to find Kati, only to realize she was assisting a customer. So he ducked below the Young Adult shelves and pretended to look for a book (a rare sight for DVD Guy).


Once Kati finally finished with her customer and began walking back to the front of the library, Fernando worked up the courage to step forward and ask for her number...only to realize he'd left his phone in the car. Thankfully Kati said yes to him giving her his number, and a few minutes later she texted him saying she'd love to find a time for them to hang out and get to know each other better.


And this, our friends, is the story of how Library Girl and DVD Guy began to fall in love.


You can read more about our story in the photo timeline below!

That fateful first text that started it all.

July 13, 2023

That fateful first text that started it all.
Our first official picture together! This was taken when Fernando picked Kati up from the Philly airport and took her to Chick-fil-A. She was exhausted after her trip to Switzerland, but somehow she managed to stay up for several more hours hanging out with him...

September 15, 2023

Our first official picture together! This was taken when Fernando picked Kati up from the Philly airport and took her to Chick-fil-A. She was exhausted after her trip to Switzerland, but somehow she managed to stay up for several more hours hanging out with him...
This selfie was taken on Fernando's 31st birthday! Shortly after this they went to see Five Nights at Freddy's together, which was their first movie theater date.

(Funny/sad story: twenty minutes into the movie Fernando suddenly started shivering uncontrollably, and by the end of the night he felt awful and eventually tested positive for Covid. Thankfully he made a quick recovery!)

October 26, 2023

This selfie was taken on Fernando's 31st birthday! Shortly after this they went to see Five Nights at Freddy's together, which was their first movie theater date. (Funny/sad story: twenty minutes into the movie Fernando suddenly started shivering uncontrollably, and by the end of the night he felt awful and eventually tested positive for Covid. Thankfully he made a quick recovery!)
After avoiding the show for years because it was "too popular," Fernando finally gave into Kati pressuring him to watch Stranger Things...and loved it. He liked it so much, he agreed to go with her as Joyce and Hopper for her Aunt Sue's Halloween party ;)

October 31, 2023

After avoiding the show for years because it was "too popular," Fernando finally gave into Kati pressuring him to watch Stranger Things...and loved it. He liked it so much, he agreed to go with her as Joyce and Hopper for her Aunt Sue's Halloween party ;)
Fernando asked Kati to read his testimony before his baptism at Willowdale. She reluctantly agreed, concerned about the potential awkwardness if everyone at church knew they were dating and things didn't end up working out. The Lord has a sense of humor that way.

November 12, 2023

Fernando asked Kati to read his testimony before his baptism at Willowdale. She reluctantly agreed, concerned about the potential awkwardness if everyone at church knew they were dating and things didn't end up working out. The Lord has a sense of humor that way.
Christmas Eve with Fernando's family (featuring matching pajamas!)

December 25, 2023

Christmas Eve with Fernando's family (featuring matching pajamas!)
Celebrating the start of 2024 together at the Kennett Square Mushroom Drop

January 01, 2024

Celebrating the start of 2024 together at the Kennett Square Mushroom Drop
Six months flew by!

January 13, 2024

Six months flew by!
For their first Valentine's Day together (and 7-month anniversary), Fernando took Kati to The Melting Pot for a fancy, romantic dinner. It was just as delicious as they hoped it would be!

February 13, 2024

For their first Valentine's Day together (and 7-month anniversary), Fernando took Kati to The Melting Pot for a fancy, romantic dinner. It was just as delicious as they hoped it would be!
Goofing around in Wholly Grounds before Nando's early morning men's Bible study

March 27, 2024

Goofing around in Wholly Grounds before Nando's early morning men's Bible study
The Big Day, which Kati had absolutely no idea was going to happen in April. She genuinely thought Fernando was playing a prank on her, until she looked behind a tree and saw...

April 12, 2024

The Big Day, which Kati had absolutely no idea was going to happen in April. She genuinely thought Fernando was playing a prank on her, until she looked behind a tree and saw...
...Diana, the best friend and secret engagement photographer ever! We love you and are so excited for you and all our other friends and family to be part of our celebration!

April 12, 2024

...Diana, the best friend and secret engagement photographer ever! We love you and are so excited for you and all our other friends and family to be part of our celebration!