Noto's at the Bil Mar

Wedding Day

Ceremony

COCKTAIL HOUR

RECEPTION

Summer

Our Wedding

Love In The Dog Park

It all started at Freedom Barkway, where our dogs were the real matchmakers. Pepper, being the social butterfly she is, trotted over to Jamie for some pets and just like that, the introductions began. After a few chance encounters (and plenty of dog park small talk), we finally made plans to hang out. We were supposed to ring in New Year's Eve with a larger group, but when those plans fell through, we ended up spending it together anyway. Turns out, it was the best way to kick off the year. A few days later, we went on our first official date and the rest is history. Now, we live in Atlanta with our little dog family, exploring the Beltline, trying new restaurants, and taking way too many pictures of our pups. We have been on so many adventures together since traveling to new places, making incredible memories, and (thanks to Jamie) never passing up the chance for a good karaoke night. We can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter with all of you!

Our Story

Photos

Ali Crook

James Chappell

Valentina Addison

Andy Knorr

Samantha Rohrbach

Jeff Williams

Christie Sharp

Andrew Sims

Kaitlyn Lantto

Daniel Castañeda

Eryn Koehn

Will Adams

Maeve MacDonald

Mitchell MacDonald

Brett Switzer

Wedding Party

When and where is the wedding?Our ceremony and reception will both be held at Noto's at the Bil-Mar. The ceremony will take place on the beach, followed by the cocktail hour and reception inside. Please arrive by&nbsp;5:00 PM&nbsp;to take your seat. The ceremony starts promptly at&nbsp;5:30 PM. What is the schedule for the evening?5:00 PM – Guests arrive and take their seats5:30 PM – Ceremony begins on the beach6:00 - 7:00 PM – Cocktail hour upstairs at Noto's7:00 PM - 12:00 AM – Reception upstairs at Noto’s What are the shuttle times?4:00 PM - Pick up at Holiday Inn Spring Lake4:20 PM - Pick up at Best Western Beacon Inn4:50 PM - Pick up at Holiday Inn Spring Lake5:10 PM - Pick up at Best Western Beacon Inn Shuttle between 5 PM and 10 PM if needed. 10:00 PM - Pick up from Noto’s to hotels11:00 PM - Pick up from Noto’s to hotels12:00 AM - Final pick up from Noto’s to hotels What is the dress code?The dress code is cocktail attire. We encourage bright, summery, and fun colors, but please wear whatever makes you look and feel your best! Since the ceremony is on sand, plan your footwear accordingly-you’re welcome to go barefoot if you prefer. Just one request: no white dresses, please :) Where can I park?Parking at Noto’s is very limited. To make things easier, we’ve arranged shuttle service from two hotel blocks:-Holiday Inn Grand Haven-Spring Lake-Best Western Beacon InnBoth hotels offer free parking if you’d like to leave your car there. Shuttle times will be shared closer to the wedding date. Please visit our Travel page for details on booking rooms in these hotel blocks. Can I bring my children?While we love your kiddos dearly, this will be an adults-only celebration. Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?The ceremony will be outdoors on the beautiful Grand Haven beach overlooking Lake Michigan. The cocktail hour and reception will be indoors on the second floor of Noto’s at the Bil-Mar. We have a backup plan in place in case of inclement weather. What if I have dietary restrictions?Please include any dietary restrictions when you RSVP so we can accommodate your needs. Can I bring a plus one?Due to limited space at our venue, we can only accommodate guests who have been specifically invited. If you have a plus one, it will be noted on the website’s RSVP form. How and when do I RSVP?Please <a href="https://www.theknot.com/us/gabe-pirela-and-jamie-loftus-aug-2025/rsvp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">RSVP</a> on our wedding website by Friday, June 13th. If you’re unable to attend, please select "decline" so we can update our vendors. We will miss you! Who can I contact if I have more questions?If you have any questions about navigating the site or the RSVP process, please reach out to Gabe or Jamie - we’re happy to help!

Q + A

Getting Here

We are so excited to celebrate our special day with you in Grand Haven, Michigan—a charming lakeside town filled with beautiful beaches, stunning sunsets, and that perfect Midwest summer vibe. To make your travel plans a little easier, the closest airport is Gerald R. Ford International Airport (GRR) in Grand Rapids, MI—about a 45-minute drive from Grand Haven. From there, you can rent a car or arrange a ride to the wedding festivities. We can’t wait to spend this unforgettable weekend with you!

Where To Stay

Where to StayWe’ve got you covered! We’ve reserved accommodations at a couple of hotels (details listed below) so you can stay close to all the wedding festivities. If you’re looking for something a little more unique, Grand Haven has plenty of charming bed &amp; breakfasts and Airbnbs that offer a cozy, local feel. These can be great options, especially if you’re traveling with a larger group and want to make a weekend out of it! No matter where you stay, you’ll be just a short distance from beautiful Lake Michigan and all the fun this town has to offer. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

For block rate, call the hotel and tell them you will be there for the wedding. Near Hot Spot ChartersMake yourself at home in one of the 123 guestrooms featuring refrigerators and microwaves. Rooms have private balconies or patios. Wired and wireless internet access is complimentary, while 42-inch flat-screen televisions with digital programming provide entertainment. Bathrooms have shower/tub combinations and hair dryers.When you stay at Holiday Inn Grand Haven-Spring Lake,

Holiday Inn Grand Haven Spring Lake an IHG Hotel

Near Mulligan's Hollow Ski BowlMake yourself at home in one of the 104 air-conditioned rooms featuring refrigerators and LED televisions. Wireless internet access (surcharge) keeps you connected, and cable programming is available for your entertainment. Private bathrooms with shower/tub combinations feature complimentary toiletries and hair dryers. Conveniences include microwaves and coffee/tea m

Best Western Beacon Inn

Travel

Explore the Beach & Boardwalk

🌊 Grand Haven State Park – Relax on the sandy shores of Lake Michigan, soak up the sun, or take a refreshing dip in the water.🚶‍♀️ Grand Haven Boardwalk – A scenic 1.5-mile stroll along the waterfront, leading to the iconic Grand Haven Lighthouse.

Outdoor Adventures

🚲 Bike the Lakeshore Trail – Rent a bike and enjoy a picturesque ride along the lakeshore to Holland.🌲 Rosy Mound Natural Area – A beautiful hiking trail through dunes and forests, leading to a secluded beach.🚤 Take a Boat Tour – Get out on the water with a boat rental or sunset cruise.

Local Eats & Drinks

🍽 The Kirby House – A local favorite for delicious food and a lively atmosphere.🍺 Odd Side Ales – A craft brewery with unique and tasty beer selections.🍦 Temptations Ice Cream – Cool off with some classic Michigan ice cream.

Fun & Unique Experiences

🎶 Musical Fountain Show – A nightly synchronized water and light show on the waterfront.🛍 Downtown Grand Haven – Stroll through charming shops, boutiques, and cafes.🎣 Fishing on the Pier – Try your luck at catching some fish with a view of the lighthouse.

Gabe & Jamie

Gabe & Jamie

G&J

Wedding Day

5:30 PM–6:00 PM

Ceremony

6:00 PM–7:00 PM

COCKTAIL HOUR

7:00 PM–12:00 AM

RECEPTION