Austin and I decided the most important thing to us for this wedding was that the important people would be there and that we would get to experience this day with them. We don't want anyone over looked. We don't want chaos or distractions. We want to celebrate with the people we care about.

No, the list has been very carefully created. If you do not have a plus one it is because we did not have room for them. We also have an alternate list so even if there were spots, we have people lined up to fill them.

The Bridal party will be alt/goth attire. We would rather not have all the guest wear the same colors so wear what you want. Get comfy or dress up. Bonus points if you can be the most you as possible. Here's permission.

The wedding ceremony will be around 3 or 4 and the reception will be afterwards. We will have the exact time on the official invitation.

Yes, after the ceremony there will be food. We need to get scheduled for taste testing so more specific information will be provided on the official invitation.

Duh, why even have a wedding if there's no cake.

It will be BYOB, so please feel free to bring what you like and have a driver.