Who do I contact if I have questions the day of?
Anyone but Isaac and Grace.
Day of Coordinator - Amber (206)688-9242
Maid of Honor - Margaret (605)496-2972
Best Man - Ben (605)728-3197
Mother of the Bride - Carrie (605)310-1613
Mother of the Groom - Susan (605)660-8619
Father of the Bride - Troy (605)310-0482
Father of the Groom - Brian (605)660-3150
Can I take pictures?
We will not allow photos taken on personal devices during the ceremony (including the processional and recessional). The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do." We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. At the reception, please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!
Can I post pictures to social media?
You are more than welcome to post pictures of you and your loved ones gussied up! We ask that you refrain from posting pictures of the newlyweds until they themselves have posted.
What is the dress code?
We'd love to have our loved ones get dressed up for our big day! We kindly ask guests to adhere to a semi-formal dress code. Ladies can wear floor-length, tea-length, or midi formal dresses. As a good amount of time will be spent in grass, we recommend shoes without a stiletto heel. Gentlemen can wear a suit and tie with button-down shirts and closed-toe shoes (a jacket is not required). Please, no denim or sneakers!
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What color should I wear?
We would love for you to get colorful and the more florals, the better! Please refrain from wearing colors traditionally reserved for the bride (white, ivory, cream, etc.). We also ask that you refrain from shades of blue so our wedding party can stand out!
What's the bar situation?
In alignment with our personal values, we will not be offering an open bar. There will be beer and wine available at a cash bar during the reception. All non alcoholic beverages will be provided to keep guests hydrated and wholesome!
When should I arrive?
We ask that guests arrive to Tuthill no earlier than 2:00pm and no later than 2:15pm. This will allow for a punctual start to our ceremony.
Please note:
When approaching Tuthill from the north, a left is taken to enter the park which can be tricky on a busy street such as Cliff Avenue. Please account for extra time in your travels if this is your chosen route.
How do I get to the ceremony?
Your navigation app will bring you to the entrance of Tuthill Park. Keep right at the fork and proceed up the hill to the uppermost parking lot. This will be north of the Tuthill House. Please do not park at the house.
What should I do if I can't make it?
You will be dearly missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP, "decline," so we can plan accordingly.
What if I don't RSVP in time?
Unfortunately, we will not be able to accommodate you if you RSVP late. We will need to provide our vendors and venue an exact guest count by a certain date. While we will send out reminders, as well as send invitations as early as possible, please be sure to RSVP as soon as you are able.
Are kids invited?
Due to limited numbers, we hope you can understand children are only invited if named on your formal invitation. We ask that children adhere to the same expectations as adults of no personal devices during the ceremony and that parents are mindful of their children's behavior throughout the night. We will have kid friendly activities available at the reception!
Can I bring a plus-one?
We are only able to accommodate guests listed on your formal invitation. If you received a plus one, it will appear under your name when you RSVP. Please respect our wishes as we are trying to keep our wedding an intimate celebration. Thank you so much for understanding!