Where is the wedding?
The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be held at The Seclusion, located at 375 Seclusion Lane, Lexington, VA, 24450. The Seclusion is located 14 miles from downtown Lexington.
What time should I arrive to the ceremony?
We recommend arriving at least 15-30 minutes prior to the ceremony to find a seat before the proceedings start at 4:00pm. Guests are allowed to arrive at 3:30pm.
Can I bring my children or a plus one?
No. Unfortunately, we are only able to accomodate guests who are formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, your plus one or your children will appear under your name when you RSVP. We are choosing to celebrate with only our closest family and friends due to the capacity of our venue and our budget. Thank you for respecting our wishes.
Is there a dress code?
Yes. We are asking our guests to dress up with us! The bride and groom kindly request that you wear your best black attire.
What kind of shoes should I wear?
We recommend you do not wear stiletto heels. There are gravel and grassy areas that you might have to walk on. Chunky heels or sandals would be appropriate footwear.
Will the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception take place indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors while guests will have the option to be inside and outside during the reception. There will be fire pits and smores that you can enjoy outdoors while taking in the mountain views.
Is parking available at the venue? Will transportation be provided?
There is plenty of free parking available at the venue. Transportation will not be provided. The venue allows vehicles to be left overnight but you must pick up your car between 10am-12pm on Saturday.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
No. We ask that you kindly put your phones away and on silent for an unplugged ceremony. We have a great photographer and she will absolutely capture these moments for us.
Are outside beverages permitted?
No. You are not allowed to bring your own beverages on the premises according to the venue's policy.
When are RSVP's due?
4/25/2025. We kindly request that you RSVP within the 6 week timeframe so we can make appropriate arrangements for our wedding. We understand if you cannot commit and hope to celebrate with you another day.
Where can I stay?
Under the "Guest Accommodations" tab there are hotels and airbnbs listed in downtown Lexington and the surrounding area. This tab also has the closest airports listed.