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Haley & Trevor

Mine and Trevor's story officially began on July 29, 2018 when Trevor messaged me! It wasn't but three days later when we officially met on August 1st. Trevor's cousin, Amanda Tedder (who I worked with at the time) , happened to invite the both of us over to her and her husband's (David) house for dinner and games! Needless to say, they were 100% the reason me and Trev met. After meeting on that Wednesday, we decided to meet back up on Saturday for our first "official" date. We spent the whole day together! My nosey parents just happened to swing by apartment to grab a coffee table for me, so Trevor met them that day too! After that day, the rest truly is history.... Trevor asked me to be his girlfriend a little over a month after we met. It was September 9th. We had spent that Sunday at his parents house in North Carolina. I had met them before, but I feel like I truly got a feel for how Trevor was raised and what life looked like for him growing up. We went to church that morning, had a big Sunday Lunch ( I mean like Thanksgiving dinner big... now I know that is a weekly thing over there) , he drove me to the top of their families mountain on the four-wheeler, showed me where he and his family had their Christmas tree farm growing up, and I am sure we had shot guns at some point that day too. Driving home that night I knew he was different, and I knew I wanted spend all of my time with him from that day on. Later that night he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. Fast forward a couple years.. Trevor would be the first to tell you I was getting eager for a ring (I was not the only one.. EVERYONE would bug him about it). This year I would "joke" about how much fun it would be to get engaged and get married. Trevor was always jokingly dismissive of the subject. He would always say "are you sureeee you want to marry me?" or "maybe one of these days..". I would almost have to force him to look at engagement ring pictures.. don't even get me started on how hard it was for him to step foot in a jewelry store. Although a part of me was doing it jokingly, I was kinda always hoping he would take some sort of mental notes.. come to find he he was! Trevor qualified for a trip to Grove Park Inn in Asheville, NC in June 2021. I was very proud of him, but also excited because I got to go too!! We headed down early on Thursday, June 17th with Craig and Callie Copeland (two of our best friends). Me and Callie headed straight to our Spa Day where we got to spend time with all the other wife's and girlfriends! We soaked in the many pools and hotubs, had an hour long massage, ate a wonderful lunch, and spent a ton of time talking and catching up. Looking back on it, I should have picked up on the fact they ALL were asking me questions as to when me and Trev would be getting married.. but that was not out of the norm by any means. Everyone ALWAYS asked...and I NEVER had an answer. The boys enjoyed their day doing what they always do.. golfing. After spending the day relaxing, me and Callie went back to the room to change and get ready for dinner. The boys were still out golfing by the time we got ready, so we decided to grab some coffee and walk around the hotel! We finally met up with Trevor, Craig and Zack to walk outside to take some pictures of the breathtaking view before the entire group met for dinner. For some odd reason, something came over me and my heart started racing as we were walking to the terrace. I quickly calmed myself down and talked myself out of thinking anything would happen.. because why would it? Trevor had not mentioned a single thing about us getting engaged.. and we were with all his work buddies. I didn't think there was anyway he would do it then. When we got outside I still did not think there was any chance in the world it would happen. The boys were complaining it was too hot to take pictures, my feet were already hurting from walking around, and it was VERY close to meeting everyone for dinner. Craig and Callie finally took their pictures first, then naturally it was mine and Trev's turn. As soon as I got my hair fixed and on "my side" he knelt down. I could not believe it. The first thing that came out of my mouth was "Trevor, you're not". When he asked me to marry him I am pretty sure I just stared at him because I could not believe what was happening. I finally shook my head yes and that was that!! Everyone else from the group slowly came out of hiding to congratulate us and take pictures! Almost ALL of them knew what was happening that day! We enjoyed a GREAT dinner with friends! I could hardly focus on the dinner... I was to busy looking back at pictures, getting calls and texts from friend and family and STARING at my ring. The next day I enjoyed another perfect day at the spa where my fiancé treated me to a great lunch and the best pedicure I have ever had! We left that afternoon ready to start this new, exciting chapter of our lives together!

H&T

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