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Fall

Our Wedding

<p>This was not a couple that was wanted in the beginning and literally no one could've predicted them as a pairing. They met through Brian Garcia at their place of work and within a couple of months, they became good friends and even roommates (including Brian as a roommate). Now Hayden did think Dakota was cute but he was definitely not his usual type and Dakota identified as a straight male so Hayden thought nothing of it, until one day he went shooting with Dakota and Brian. He still can't understand why but when he looked at Dakota laying on the ground to shoot his rifle he saw Dakota in a new light and realized he had a small crush on him. once again he couldn't do anything since he was straight and at this point had a girlfriend so he pushed those feelings away. Couple more months down the line and Hayden was getting ready to move to Minnesota with a middle school friend and Dakota and his then-girlfriend were having issues (let's just say the said girlfriend was beyond not a good person). After a bit more of taking all her bullcrap, Dakota finally decides to leave her, and not too soon after starts showing signs of liking Hayden. He acted all cuddly and blushed around Hayden constantly. Hayden could sense there was something going on but didn't want to wreck the friendship with Dakota because within a short amount of time he was very important to him. So instead of asking himself, he had Brian ask if Dakota liked him, and the answer was blushing yes. Dakota decided to tell Hayden himself and when he did Hayden was scared that it was just another straight guy wanting to experiment and his heart would get broken. They went to CG mountain to look at the stars and talk and ended up staying out there for hours, watching a movie and cuddling in Dakota's truck. Out there they shared an awkward first kiss that still is a moment they look back on laugh and smile about. from then on they would cuddle and kiss and smile about how happy they are to actually have someone to hold. Both fell hard and fast for each other too, Dakota doesn't know when but he fell in love with Hayden in the blink of an eye and Hayden knew he was in love with Dakota when he had a traumatic day with his family and wanted no one but Dakota holding him. Sadly Hayden was supposed to move to Minnesota later that month so they didn't want to waste any time and spent almost all of it together. The day came when Hayden was to leave and both of them cried but neither knew, Hayden cried at the stop sign outside the apartment complex and Dakota cried watching Hayden drive away. The next month was hard for the both of them being so far but Dakota was planning on visiting for Hayden's birthday and it ended up that he just moved out to Minnesota instead. The moment he got there and they saw each other they were happy and could not stop hugging and holding hands and smiling. After a few months of going on sweet dates and hanging out with friends and spending the happiest moments together, Dakota decided to propose on Easter and well you can see Hayden said yes. They have definitely had bad times, hard times, and good times together, and even though both have wanted to kill or throw out the other and even just leave they still stay and love each other unconditionally.</p>

The surprising couple

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DJ Lewis is Hayden's longest best friend and sister. Since grade 3 they have been extremely close and have been through so much together. Hayden and DJ are practically like twins even though Hayden will insist he's older (although it's only by 4 months). 

DJ Lewis

Robert before his passing was Dakota's brother and best friend, the two were inseparable. They constantly went fishing, camping, and hunting for squirrels. 
In Memorium for Robert, there will be a picture and hat behind Dakota and in front of the honorary best man Brian Garcia.

Robert Ashbaugh

Brian and Dakota have known each other since 2018 and Brian and Hayden have known each other since 2012. Brian has been a really good friend of the family overcoming the ups and downs among each other they've all come out stronger. 

Brian Garica

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Holiday Inn Casa Grande

Near Banner Casa Grande Medical CenterMake yourself at home in one of the 70 guestrooms, featuring kitchenettes with full-sized refrigerators/freezers and stovetops. Your room comes with a pillowtop bed, and all rooms are furnished with double sofa beds. 32-inch flat-screen televisions with cable programming provide entertainment, while complimentary wireless Internet access keeps you connected. Conveniences include safes and desks, as well as phones with free local calls.With a stay at MainStay Suites Extended Stay Hotel Casa Grande in Casa Grande, you'll be within a 5-minute drive of Banner Casa Grande Medical Center and Promenade at Casa Grande.  This hotel is 8.4 mi (13.6 km) from Pinal Fairgrounds and Event Center and 8.4 mi (13.6 km) from Francisco Grande.Distances are displayed to the nearest 0.1 mile and kilometer.  Banner Casa Grande Medical Center - 0.7 km / 0.4 mi  Promenade at Casa Grande - 2.5 km / 1.6 mi  Casa Grande Valley Historical Society Museum - 4.8 km / 3 mi  Casa Grande Art Museum - 4.9 km / 3 mi  Robson Ranch Golf Club - 13.2 km / 8.2 mi  Pinal Fairgrounds and Event Center - 13.6 km / 8.4 mi  Francisco Grande - 13.6 km / 8.4 mi  Arizona City Golf Course - 17.2 km / 10.7 mi  Sonora Wings - 26.4 km / 16.4 mi  Casa Grande Ruins National Monument - 32.2 km / 20 mi  Picacho Peak State Park - 37.5 km / 23.3 mi  Copper Sky Recreation Complex - 41.8 km / 25.9 mi  Rooster Cogburn Ostrich Ranch - 43.9 km / 27.3 mi  Florence Hospital - 44.3 km / 27.5 mi  Bear Creek Golf Course - 44.8 km / 27.8 mi  The nearest airports are:Phoenix Sky Harbor Intl. Airport (PHX) - 76.1 km / 47.3 mi Phoenix - Mesa Gateway Airport (AZA) - 69.6 km / 43.2 mi Chandler, AZ (CHD-Chandler Municipal) - 53.6 km / 33.3 mi The preferred airport for MainStay Suites Extended Stay Hotel Casa Grande is Phoenix Sky Harbor Intl. Airport (PHX). Be sure to enjoy recreational amenities, including an outdoor pool, a spa tub, and a fitness center. Additional amenities at this hotel include complimentary wireless Internet access, a television in a common area, and barbecue grills.Featured amenities include a 24-hour business center, express check-out, and complimentary newspapers in the lobby. Free self parking is available onsite.Grab a bite from the snack bar/deli serving guests of MainStay Suites Extended Stay Hotel Casa Grande. A complimentary full breakfast is served daily from 5 AM to 9 AM.

MainStay Suites Extended Stay Hotel Casa Grande

Near Banner Casa Grande Medical CenterMake yourself at home in one of the 80 air-conditioned rooms featuring refrigerators and flat-screen televisions. Complimentary wireless Internet access keeps you connected, and cable programming is available for your entertainment. Private bathrooms with shower/tub combinations feature complimentary toiletries and hair dryers. Conveniences include separate sitting areas and microwaves, as well as phones with free local calls.Located in Casa Grande, Quality Inn Casa Grande I-10 is near the airport, a 5-minute walk from Banner Casa Grande Medical Center and within a 5-minute drive of Promenade at Casa Grande.  This hotel is 8.2 mi (13.3 km) from Francisco Grande and 8.6 mi (13.8 km) from Pinal Fairgrounds and Event Center.Distances are displayed to the nearest 0.1 mile and kilometer.  Banner Casa Grande Medical Center - 0.4 km / 0.2 mi  Promenade at Casa Grande - 2.8 km / 1.7 mi  Casa Grande Valley Historical Society Museum - 4.7 km / 3 mi  Casa Grande Art Museum - 4.8 km / 3 mi  Francisco Grande - 13.3 km / 8.2 mi  Robson Ranch Golf Club - 13.5 km / 8.4 mi  Pinal Fairgrounds and Event Center - 13.8 km / 8.6 mi  Arizona City Golf Course - 17.4 km / 10.8 mi  Sonora Wings - 26 km / 16.2 mi  Casa Grande Ruins National Monument - 32.4 km / 20.1 mi  Picacho Peak State Park - 37.8 km / 23.5 mi  Copper Sky Recreation Complex - 41.9 km / 26 mi  Rooster Cogburn Ostrich Ranch - 44.2 km / 27.5 mi  Florence Hospital - 44.6 km / 27.7 mi  Bear Creek Golf Course - 45.1 km / 28 mi  The nearest airports are:Phoenix Sky Harbor Intl. Airport (PHX) - 76.4 km / 47.5 mi Phoenix - Mesa Gateway Airport (AZA) - 69.9 km / 43.4 mi Chandler, AZ (CHD-Chandler Municipal) - 53.8 km / 33.4 mi The preferred airport for Quality Inn Casa Grande I-10 is Phoenix Sky Harbor Intl. Airport (PHX). Don't miss out on the many recreational opportunities, including an outdoor pool, a spa tub, and a 24-hour fitness center. Additional features at this hotel include complimentary wireless Internet access, tour/ticket assistance, and a picnic area.Featured amenities include a 24-hour business center, complimentary newspapers in the lobby, and a 24-hour front desk. Free self parking is available onsite.Enjoy a satisfying meal at Dennys in parking lot serving guests of Quality Inn Casa Grande I-10. A complimentary self-serve breakfast is served daily from 6:00 AM to 9:30 AM.

Hayden & Dakota

Hayden & Dakota

H&D

Wedding Day

4:00 PM–5:00 PM

Ceremony

5:00 PM–9:00 PM

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