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Heather & Benjamin

June 1, 2024 • Arlington, WA

Heather & Benjamin

June 1, 2024 • Arlington, WA

Q + A

1. When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail back my RSVP or can I do it online?

Thank you in advance for sending your RSVP before April 5th, 2024. You can simply RSVP right here on our wedding website on the RSVP tab: https://www.theknot.com/us/heather-edgley-and-benjamin-burke-jun-2024/rsvp

2. Am I invited to the rehearsal dinner?

Due to the space limitations of our venue, we unfortunately have to limit the rehearsal dinner guest list to those who will be playing a role in the ceremony.

3. What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

The dress code for our wedding is Garden Party Formal. * * * Garden Party Formal is less formal than "black tie" but more formal than "business casual." It's similar to a cocktail attire dress code, but with softer tones and a more colorful palette, such as floral prints. Think cheerful when it comes to color and don't be afraid to incorporate some florals into your look, like a printed dress or patterned tie or pocket square. * * * A note about footwear: Our ceremony will be taking place on a grassy lawn, so ladies, please keep this in mind when choosing your footwear! A block heel or wedge of some sort is recommended to keep you from sinking into the ground. Please note, dinner will be hosted outside under a large tent, so we’d recommend bringing a jacket or sweater to keep warm! * * * *Please avoid any all white, mostly white, cream, or champagne outfits or dresses. We want the bride to stand out! Regardless of the dress code, don’t overthink it! Do your best to follow the dress code, but don’t lose sleep over it. Rule of thumb: It’s always better to be overdressed than underdressed. But at the end of the day, the bride and groom invited you to their wedding because they want YOU there – not a perfectly put-together outfit!

4. What will the weather be like this time of year?

In early June, the weather is expected to be sunny with highs in the low to mid 70's. It may cool off in the evening into the low 50s. Please keep keep in mind that the ceremony is outdoors and there is a chance of rain. Make sure to check the weather forecast as the wedding date approaches and dress appropriately and consider bringing an umbrella if necessary.

5. Where are the ceremony and the reception taking place?

Both the ceremony and reception will take place on the same location at Sadie Lake Events.

6. Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony will be taking place in an outdoor garden; we recommend flat-soled shoes or wedges to avoid sinking into the grass. The reception will be held indoors in the venue barn.

8. What time should I arrive?

Help us get the party started as scheduled! We ask that you arrive at 2 PM, to make sure everyone is seated on time for the ceremony.

9. Where should guests park? Is parking free?

There is plenty of free parking at the venue. However, it is very important that our guests have safe transportation to and from our wedding. If you plan to consume alcohol, we ask that you park at one of the recommended hotels or the Tulalip casino and Uber or Lyft to and from the wedding, unless you have a designated driver for the day.

10. Are kids welcome? Can I bring a plus one?

Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation.

11. Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

Yes! But not during the ceremony. We will be having an unplugged wedding ceremony so that guests are not distracted by their devices and the professional wedding photographer can get the best possible shots without the interference of other flashes or mobile screens. During the reception we will have a QR code link to a shared digital photo album for guests to add to with a scavenger hunt list of photos for guests to try and take.

12. Can I post wedding photos on social media?

We ask that you not share any photos of the bride and groom to your social media accounts as we would like to be the first to share our own professional photos of our big day. You of course may share photos from the wedding of yourself and other friends at the wedding.

13. What happens after the ceremony?

After the ceremony, the bride and groom will be signing their marriage license and be taking some family photos for around a half hour. The bar will open during this time and there will be an appetizer bar available. Guests will be free to get drinks at the bar, socialize, and enjoy lawn games. Right before guests are seated for dinner, all guests will be requested to participate in photos and videos to give the bride and groom a grand entrance as an officially married couple.

14. Will there be food and drinks during cocktail hour?

After the wedding ceremony, we will be serving light appetizers accompanied by an open bar. We invite you to toast to our nuptials with a curated selection of craft beer, hard seltzer and champagne.

15. Will dinner be served at the reception? What kind of food?

We will be providing a full, sit down dinner, shortly after the ceremony. We will have a vegan/vegetarian buffet with multiple appetizers, main dishes, salads, and sides. We will also have a dessert bar during the reception.

16. Can I bring my own alcohol?

No. The venue strictly prohibits liquor of any kind. Please do not jeopardize the bride and groom by bringing your own liquor. Beer, wine, and hard seltzer will be provided at an open bar.

17. Do you have a hotel block for guests? Where do you recommend I stay?

On the "Accommodations" section of this website we have listed four recommended hotels in the area of our wedding. You are responsible for booking your own room. We recommend doing this sooner rather than later if you plan to attend our wedding and need a place to stay, to guarantee you have a room, and to avoid price increases as the date gets closer.

18. Will transportation be provided between the to and from the hotel, ceremony and reception?

Guests are responsible for their own transportation to the venue and to and from their hotel.

19. Where are you registered?

We are so thankful you will be joining us for this celebration of our love. While gifts are not expected, we have registered for our honeymoon fund, and any contributions are greatly appreciated. A link to our wedding registry can be found here: https://www.theknot.com/us/heather-edgley-and-heather-lauenroth-jun-2024/registry

20. Who can I contact with any additional questions?

Hopefully, our wedding website FAQs will clear up all of the essential details, but for any other questions that come up, please reach out to the maid of honor, Hannah, via text at 360-303-6231.