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Jaci & Benjamin

August 19, 2023 • St Paul, MN

Jaci & Benjamin

August 19, 2023 • St Paul, MN

Q + A

How do I RSVP? When should I RSVP by?

To RSVP, click the RSVP tab and type the name(s) listed on your envelope. Kindly RSPV by Saturday, July 15th. Any RSVPs received after this date will be marked as a 'no' as we will be sending final headcounts to vendors shortly after this deadline.

What should I wear?

Dress code: formal summer. Think a gown or cocktail dress in bright or pastel colors, or a suit in light-colored linen or cotton, classic gray, blue, or black. Have fun with your outfit!

Can I bring my kids?

Although we adore your children, unfortunately due to space constraints at the venue, the ceremony and reception will be an adult only event. However, we would love to celebrate with your little ones at the welcome party! We appreciate your understanding!

Can I bring a plus one?

Due to space constraints at the venue, we are only able to accommodate those listed on your RSVP. If you have a guest, they will be listed under your party when you go to RSVP.

Is there parking at the venue?

Yes - there is plenty of free street parking in the area around the St. Paul College Club, all with a short walk to our venue. Please reach out to Ben or Jaci if you would like a valet option.

Will transportation be provided to and from the venue?

Yes - we are providing an Uber code for transportation to the venue. To use the offer...

1. Open the Uber app

2. Set "St. Paul College Club" as your destination

3. Enter the code rkT0ZTrntjM

4. Enjoy your ride!

What events are happening around the wedding?

All are welcome to join us for a welcome party at Jaci's parents' house on Friday night beginning at 6pm. The address is:


5836 County Road 6

Independence, MN 55359


There will also be a free shuttle bus leaving the Celeste of St. Paul Hotel at 5:30pm and 7:30pm for our guests. Don't forget to bring a swimsuit if are planning on a dip in the swimming pond!


Immediately following the reception on Saturday night, there will be an afterparty until 12:00am in the bar of the Celeste of St. Paul Hotel. You may use our Uber code (rkT0ZTrntjM) to travel from the venue to the hotel.

How should I tell Jaci and Ben if I can't make it to the wedding?

Something like this would work:


"Hey Ben and Jaci, I am so sorry to have to say this but I won't be able to make it to your wedding.


I just found out that my pet iguana got loose and ended up swallowing my phone, which is the only way I could get there.


I am absolutely devastated and I know how much this means to you. Please know that I'll be thinking of you on your special day. Congratulations and all the best!"


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What should I do if I feel myself getting into a heated political debate with another guest?

Try engaging in a conversation like the following.


Person A: Hi! I'm looking forward to celebrating our friends' wedding together.


Person B: Me too, though I know we have some pretty strong political disagreements, and I don't want to make things awkward today.


Person A: I appreciate you saying that. And I completely agree. This is not the time or place for us to engage in a political debate.


Person B: That's a relief to hear. I don't want to ruin the happy occasion by getting into a heated argument.


Person A: Absolutely not. Our friends have worked so hard to make this day perfect, and I don't want to take away from that in any way.


Person B: I'm glad we can agree on that!


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How do I cure the hangover I'm going to have after the wedding?

1. Lick a cactus: Cactus has been used for centuries as a natural hangover cure. Lick a small cactus to help rehydrate and detoxify your body.


2. Listen to heavy metal music: Listening to loud, heavy music can help to distract you from your hangover symptoms and release endorphins, which can improve your mood.


3. Dance with a chicken: Dancing can help to release endorphins and improve your mood, while a chicken can help to ward off bad luck and negative energy. Dance with a chicken to help cure your hangover.


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When I see Jaci, what are some nicknames I can use to refer to her?

1. Secondhand Sorceress: A nickname that celebrates her love for thrifting and suggests her magical ability to transform secondhand clothes into something new and stylish.


2. Sewing Shaman: A playful nickname that combines her love for sewing with a mystical quality, suggesting a master of the art of sewing.


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When I see Ben, what are some nicknames I can use to refer to him?

1. Dr. Behave: A fun play on his PhD in Organizational Behavior & Theory, emphasizing his expertise in human behavior.


2. Bow Boss: A clever nickname that incorporates his bow-leggedness and suggests his command over it.


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