God led us both down different and bumpy paths in our love lives. He taught us the lessons we needed to learn before we could finally meet.
These lessons led us to a sobriety which not only demonstrated to us what we wanted to get out of our life partner but also what we had to give to them as well. This is why from the first time we meant, we always had such a strong connection.
We never had to act like a higher version of ourselves, but we wanted to be for each other.
Some people take months and others take years before they realize this connection to know who or when they will marry. Eventually, there comes a point of clarity when you look at this person from across a table on a fall evening game night.
Perhaps they're sitting next to you on a plane after a random decision to head south. Maybe you're going through something and they're the first person who comes to mind when you need to talk it out. At some point along the way you start to realize that the definition of insanity applies if you don't take the initiative to marry before God the person he sent to you when you were ready for them. Therefore, we excitedly count down the days to begin a new adventure beyond those we've already taken. 💕