When you pull into the Wesleyan Hills area, you will soon see a sign signaling to pull into The Barns area. From there, you will immediately see an open parking lot where you can park.

Our wedding has a semi-formal dress code. For women, cocktail dresses and gowns or dressy pantsuits are appropriate. For men, we suggest dress pants and a button-down shirt. A suit and tie would also be great if you have one! Please avoid jeans, shorts, t-shirts, and sneakers. **Please note to dress appropriately for the weather. We're aiming to have an outdoor ceremony, so please keep the temperature in mind. It will be late October, and anything's possible when it comes to New England weather! Consider bringing a shawl or jacket.

Yes! We plan to have a plethora of different kinds of food stations as well as vegetarian entre options to cater to everyone's needs. Please let us know in advance if you have any specific dietary needs.

This is a question we've gotten quite a bit and have put a lot of thought into. While we love your children deeply, we feel it is important for us to have an intimate ceremony and reception where guests can focus on the joy of our union and have some much-deserved fun as well! We hope you understand our choice, and that you will be able to find childcare for the event so that you can celebrate with us. We value your presence tremendously, and simply feel our wedding is not a setting that will be enjoyable for very young children or babies. We look forward to celebrating with you!

We apologize, but due to venue capacity, we can't accommodate any uninvited guests. If your invitation is addressed to you and a guest, feel free to bring someone.

Yes! There are hotels nearby and we will be booking a strip of them for guests who would like to spend the night in Middletown with us after the wedding. This will be updated on our website once that is booked.

Yes, if you book a room through the hotel we've provided on our website, there will be a coach bus service providing transportation to the ceremony and back to the hotel!