Minister Kathy Borders - Wedding Officiant
Minister Kathy Borders gave the couple relationship counseling before the two purchased their home. Jaselyn and Kathy were close friends when they both worked for Nationwide Insurance. Kathy is a well seemed out minister that delivers a powerful word of God. She has an amazing sense of humor; Gotti and Jaselyn knows she will make their marriage ceremony the most memorable experience of their lives.
Kara Parks - Wedding Coordinator
Norman “Gotti” Guardado - Groom
Sade Henderson - Matron of Honor
Sade has been Jaselyn’s closest friend for 15 years; they met through the Young Professionals Association at the Chamber of Commerce and quickly bonded over late-night study sessions, community events, and a shared love of live music. Sade has been by Jaselyn’s side through career milestones, moves, and every laugh in between—always the person who knows when to offer practical advice and when to bring over comfort food. As Matron of Honor, she’s helped lead dress shopping, coordinated surprise gatherings, and stayed calm amid the planning chaos. Jaselyn and Gotti are grateful for Sade’s steady support, big heart, and the warmth she brings to their celebration.
Ebony Jones - Maid of Honor
Ebony and Jaselyn met while competing in Miss South Carolina Plus America in 2023—Ebony earned the title of Mrs. South Carolina Plus America 2023 and Jaselyn was crowned Ms. South Carolina Plus America 2023. Their bond grew from shared pageant experiences into a deep friendship rooted in community service and daily phone calls full of encouragement. Over the years they’ve supported each other through new jobs, new homes, divorce, celebrations, and countless milestones, and they still make time for trips together—most recently a cruise in the Bahamas. They consider themselves sister queens and true sisters brought together by pageantry, and you might just catch them modeling side-by-side on a runway. Ebony has been Jaselyn and Gotti’s biggest fan, offering steady encouragement and support for their love.
Katrina Nance - Bridesmaid
Katrina was introduced to Jaselyn by a family member as the “body butter” lady, and over time Jaselyn discovered Katrina was also a realtor. When Jaselyn and Gotti decided to buy a house, Katrina guided them through every step of the process and stayed with them until the keys were in hand. Along the way they discovered how much they had in common—including the same middle name, Shante—and became workout partners at Tuesday Zumba, holding each other accountable. Jaselyn admires Katrina as a wife and mother and often turns to her for wisdom; their close friendship made it impossible to imagine the day without her by their side.
Bella Levy - Bridesmaid
The pageant and modeling world brought Bella and Jaselyn together in 2023 at the International World Pageant. Bella traveled to South Carolina alone, and the pageant director paired her with Jaselyn until her hotel room was ready. They instantly bonded over Bella’s Louis Vuitton shoes and impeccable style. Jaselyn coached Bella for her interview and guided her throughout the weekend, and later had the honor of crowning Bella as Queen. Bella quickly took to Gotti like a little brother and became a steadfast supporter of Jaselyn’s journey—sponsoring and praying with her during Jaselyn’s run for Ms. South Carolina Plus America. They’ve stayed in weekly touch and, despite the distance between states, are like sisters who always show up for one another; Jaselyn and Gotti are grateful to have Bella’s unwavering support and friendship.
Octavia Jenkins - Bridesmaid
Octavia and Jaselyn were introduced through their mutual friend Sade; working together to give Sade a grand baby shower revealed how much they had in common. Their friendship deepened around shared faith and prayer, and they've supported one another through life’s many changes. Jaselyn admires Octavia’s gift for storytelling—her colorful, fun sayings make their weekly conversations a highlight—and values her generous relationship advice and steady positivity during tough times. The two often double date and organize couple-focused events, making memories together as friends and partners in faith.
Racheal Cross - Bridesmaid
Jayme Morant - Bridesmaid
Jadiel Diaz - Best Man
Diaz and Gotti met while working together at BMW, where their friendship quickly grew from coworker camaraderie into a steadfast bond. Diaz is caring and dependable—always ready with practical help or a steadying word—and their relationship deepened through shared time playing basketball and gaming sessions of Fortnite and Call of Duty. They've supported one another through many life moments, offering honest advice and reliable presence. There is no one better to stand by Gotti’s side as he becomes a husband than his great friend Diaz.
Tyrese Franklin - Groomsmen
Gotti and Tyrese met as co-workers at Greenco and quickly became best friends. A former high school all‑star athlete, Tyrese loves playing basketball with Gotti in their free time. They've shared relationship advice and supported one another through life’s ups and downs, and they bond over playing video games together—especially Fortnite and Call of Duty.
Ken Henderson - Groomsmen
Gotti and Ken met through their wives’ friendship and quickly discovered a shared bond when Ken sold Gotti his first brand-new car. Their friendship grew from that moment, built on a mutual love of football, good steak, and cigars. Gotti admires Ken for his dedication as a husband, father, and trusted personal financial advisor. Always steady and generous with his time, Ken has been there through milestones and everyday moments alike—Gotti and Jaselyn can’t imagine tying the knot without him by their side.
James Jenkins - Groomsmen
JP and Gotti became friends through their wives’ friendship and quickly bonded over comics, video games, and a shared love of fashion. Gotti admires JP’s calm, laid-back vibe and the way he shows up as a devoted father. Over the years they’ve celebrated milestones, traded advice, and supported each other through ups and downs. JP’s steady presence, good humor, and loyalty make him an irreplaceable friend—there’s no greater friend to have in your life than JP.
LeKisha Johnson - Hostess
Yolanda Cunningham - Hostess
Kamden Cook - Ring bearer
Rebecca Jennings - Mother of Bride
Johnny Jennings Jr - Father of Bride (Giving Bride Away)
Christopher D. Simpson - Giving Away the Bride (Brother)
Que Jackson - Mother of Groom
Lee Phelps - Stepfather of Groom
Norman Guardado Sr - Father of the Groom