Ben is Joel’s older brother, partner-in-crime, and the ultimate hype man. Whether he’s advocating for safe needle exchanges, spinning tracks as a DJ, or attending Grateful Dead shows, Ben lives life with passion and a beat of his own. He’s the kind of guy who can make noise in all the best ways, but beneath the fun and free spirit is someone deeply caring and compassionate. As Joel’s big brother, Ben has always been there—offering advice, sharing laughs, and occasionally prompting Joel to roll his eyes when Ben announces he's headed to yet another Grateful Dead show. His unwavering support for those he loves (and for causes he believes in) makes him one of a kind.

Miguel is one of Joel’s groomsmen and a friend who quickly became like family. The two met at the University of Portland, where they hit it off almost immediately. Miguel’s love for Modelo and his sharp humor made him an unforgettable presence, but it’s his knack for giving Joel a hard time about his constant singing that really solidified their friendship. Beyond the banter, Miguel has been a steady and unwavering source of support for Joel. Through life’s ups and downs, he’s always been there with a listening ear and an open heart. His dependability and steadfast presence have made a lasting impact, and he’s someone Joel knows he can always count on, no matter the circumstances.

Ricky Torres is one of Joel’s groomsmen and a close friend to both Jenn and Joel. Their friendship started back at the University of Portland, where Ricky quickly stood out with his unfiltered enthusiasm for personal safety discussions, his strong opinions on making sure there are at least 4 dozen eggs in the fridge at all times, and a passion for Mopar. He and Joel also share a love of coffee-making, often debating the finer points of brewing techniques and latte making. But beyond his quirks, Ricky is the kind of friend who makes life better. His loyalty runs deep, he’s the first to have your back in tough times, and his knack for making everyone laugh ensures there’s never a dull moment. Whether it’s a spontaneous debate about breakfast foods or an honest heart-to-heart, Ricky brings warmth, humor, and energy wherever he goes.

Paul is one of Joel’s groomsmen and the kind of friend who can light up any room. Charismatic and effortlessly funny, Paul has a knack for delivering spot-on critiques with just the right amount of humor—ones you can’t help but agree with. A lover of music and always up for sharing a good, well-priced beer, Paul brings great energy wherever he goes. Beyond his wit, Paul is someone you can always count on. He’s been there for Joel through thick and thin, offering unwavering support and friendship. His calming presence and good-natured personality make him the kind of person who’s not only fun to be around but also genuinely comforting when it matters most. He has a lot of love for his wife Haley, who is also an important friend to us both.

Gail is not only one of Jenn’s Maid of Honors but also one of her closest friends and an unwavering source of support. They first met in college, but it wasn’t until they became roommates for four years—two of which were during med school—that their bond truly solidified. Through late-night study sessions and the many challenges of med school, Gail became one of Jenn’s rocks, especially during the toughest first two years of the program. When they’re not talking books or enjoying a glass of wine, you’ll often find them watching Lord of the Rings together or diving into their shared love for fantasy and gossip. Gail has a heart of gold and a true passion for working with children, making her not only a wonderful friend but also a genuinely caring person. Throughout their friendship, Gail has been there for Jenn, always offering unwavering support and friendship. Jenn feels incredibly lucky to have Gail by her side and is so excited to have her standing with her as she takes this next step in life. Truly one of the best people she knows.

Sarah is Jenn’s first college roommate and one of her closest friends. Their bond was immediate, and they ended up rooming together every year after that, building a friendship that only grew stronger over time. While Jenn is bummed that they’re now long-distance, she knows that Sarah will always be there for her, no matter the miles between them. Sarah’s love for baking, cooking, and binge-watching TV shows is matched only by her warm heart and infectious passion for life. She might be a bit of a klutz at times, but she has an incredible ability to find humor in any situation and make everyone around her smile. Sarah’s authenticity and positivity make her an absolute joy to be around. Jenn feels incredibly lucky to have her as one of her Maid of Honors.

Emmy is Joel’s sister, but over the years, she’s become one of Jenn’s good friends and a sister in every sense of the word. From the very beginning, Jenn and Emmy formed a strong bond, and it’s grown into a friendship built on mutual respect, laughter, and shared experiences. Emmy’s energy is unmatched (except when she’s napping), and she has a way of bringing excitement and enthusiasm to every room she enters. Known for her strong opinions, Emmy is also incredibly caring and always ready to support those she loves. Whether it’s standing by Jenn and Joel through thick and thin or offering her perspective on just about anything, she has never wavered in her commitment to her family. Jenn feels incredibly lucky to have Emmy standing by her side on this special day.

Adam is Jenn’s older brother, and he’s been there since day one of her life—whether it was torturing her like any good brother would or lifting her up when she needed it most. Despite the sibling rivalry, Jenn knows that no matter what, Adam will always have her back, and that’s why she’s honored to have him standing by her side as one of her bridesmen. With his goofball energy and a knack for making everyone laugh, Adam brings a lightheartedness to any situation. He’s passionate about soccer, his family, lake days, and, of course, bags of chips. His sense of humor and the security he’s always provided Jenn are qualities she’ll forever treasure. Through the years, Adam has been a constant in Jenn’s life, someone who can both challenge her and comfort her.

Dillon is not just our officiant but also one of our closest friends. With boundless energy and a sense of humor that can brighten any room, he’s the kind of person everyone loves to be around. Whether he’s deep in a campaign of Dungeons and Dragons, hitting the slopes skiing, or tackling a rugged backpacking trail, Dillon brings the same enthusiasm and heart to everything he does. One of Dillon’s many gifts is his ability to read a room and lift everyone’s spirits. He’s an amazing friend who always has your back and knows exactly how to make you feel better, no matter the situation. His blend of humor, kindness, and genuine care has made him a truly special part of our lives.