Our story began on a little app known as Tinder. It was a match!

After texting each other for a couple of weeks, a first date was set. On May 20th, 2018, the plan was to meet for a short walk through Heckscher State Park. On the big day, Jess easily spotted Tim’s mirror red wrapped car and followed him into the parking lot. With butterflies in our stomachs, we got out of our cars and said “Hi”. Neither of us had ever been to Heckscher before, but we were up for exploring. There was a beach, some woods, and an area surrounded by grass taller than the both of us. We walked for hours, talking and nervously getting to know each other. We bonded over our interests in music, movies, TV shows, the macabre, and our love for cats. We talked about our goals in life and our individual plans for the future. We both felt a strong connection and neither of us wanted the date to end. We finally parted with a quick hug and an awkward goodbye. Jess drove home feeling excited that the first date went so well and hoping that Tim felt the same way. Tim left feeling like he had met the perfect girl.

After years of continuing to grow our bond and sharing lots of laughs, the day finally came. The proposal. Tim suggested that we go on a walk at the location of our first date. The wind was whipping, and the sky was covered by one continuous cloud. Wrapped in blankets, we walked along the water’s edge looking for shells and cool rocks. After some time, Tim spotted the perfect location to pop the question. There was a little peninsula of sand that jutted out into the Great South Bay, and we stopped to admire the view. We could just make out the long bridge to Robert Moses. Seemingly for warmth, Tim wrapped his arms around Jess from behind. Tim gave a beautiful speech about his love for Jess and the journey they have been on for the past several years. He loosened his grip and got into position. Jess turned to see Tim on one knee holding a ring box with her dream ring glistening in the overcast sunlight. With a resounding yes, a hug and kiss, the two were officially engaged!

We are excited to start on our next big adventure together, one filled with even more love and laughter. We can’t wait to celebrate our love alongside our family and friends.

See you August 9th, 2025!

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