Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

We're getting married at the Center for Urban Horticulture, which can be found at &nbsp;3501 NE 41st St, Seattle, WA 98105. Ample parking is available, and it's very close to several bus routes. The Ceremony will begin at 4:30, with dinner and games to follow

Our Wedding

Our Story

Photos

She/Her - Amanda is Jessie's older sister. She currently lives in Taipei, Taiwan with two cats (Dandy and Mango) and her partner Jared. She works in the news and produces radio shows/podcasts, and taught ESL for 10 years. She speaks English, Spanish, and a little bit of Mandarin, but is happy to practice whenever the opportunity arrives. 

Amanda Stephens

Stevie Mather

She/Her -  Jessica's younger sister, Katie currently lives in Seattle working as a barista. She is a lover of all things including nature, knitting and cooking... oh yeah, and her family! She is so happy for Jess & Frank and ecstatic to be a part of their big day.

Katie Stephens

Joe Barnheart

He/Him - Jessie was one of the first people Maurice met after moving to Seattle in 2016. They bonded over bad puns, finger guns, and Rocky Horror all brought them closer together. While he no longer lives in Seattle, he's happy to be a part of Jessie and Frank's big day.

Maurice Taylor

Zizi Johnson

She/They

Hello all!
I’m April, and I am excited to be a part of the wedding party! I’ve known Frank since around summer of 2008 at Tillicum Village where we were working at the time, and several summers later, Jess was working there as well! While Frank and I had known and interacted quite a bit, I didn’t get to really know Jess during the time Ey worked at Tillicum Village, but our interactions increased over the years afterwards. From anime, to MTG, to boardgames, Rocky, and overall vibes, I’ve come to adore both of these wonderful people and am happy to see them finally tying the knot!

April Harbright

Lindsay Ferrufino

He/Him/They/Them

My name is Rin. I've know Jess for about 12 years and Frank almost just as long. These two have been some of the best friends I've gotten to have in my life, and can't wait to be apart of this celebration for them 💖

Rin McLaughlin

Amelie Klein

He/They - Ami became friends with Jessie over hair dye, from which things progressed until today where Jessica is the proud "Auncle" to Ami's dog. He currently works as a multidisciplinary artist, and is a dad-joke professional. They are pleased to attend Jessica and Frank's wedding with their wife, Vex, to wish the couple the best on their big day.

Amilyn Rael Tucherov

Walter Chester

She/Her/They/Them - Carly met Jessica through the Vicarious Theatre Company ~2013, and the friendship later blossomed over their mutual love of the McElroy podcastverse.  Carly splits her professional life between work at a woman's shelter and her small business making macarons, and her spare time is spent on arts & crafts, singing in the Seattle Ladies Choir, playing Stardew Valley, making playlists, and meeting as many cats as possible

Carly Trautwein

Armando Antoine

He/Him - Rob loves hiking, biking, skiing and the many other ways to explore the great outdoors. Excited to begin life as a newly-minted father-in-law, and so proud, and happy for both Frank and Jessica.

Robert Stephens

She/Her -
I am Jessica's mom and soon to be the mother in law to Frank.  Hopefully all those MIL jokes won't apply to me-time will tell.  
I am thrilled to officially have Frank be a part of our family. I wish this couple a wonderful adventure in their lives together. 

Susan Hahn

He/Him - Frank's father, visiting Seattle for the big event. He's so happy to be able to be here for the happy couple, and of course his son, on such a special day.

Frank Mather Sr.

He/Him -
Rich is Jessica's Uncle, and has seen Jessica and Frank's relationship from its inception. Both Jessica and Frank Were absolutely thrilled when he said he would officiate

Richard Hahn

Wedding Party

Q + A

Travel

Argosy's one hour harbor tour is a great way to get a feel for the city in a hurry. As both Frank and Jessica have worked there off and on for the better part of a decade, all of the cruises hold a special place in both of their hearts. In fact, Jessica smuggled nearly 40 people onto a harbor cruise in order to propose to Frank in September of 2024. The couple does recommend advanced reservations if you plan to go on one of the cruises while you're in town; late august is a very busy period and while it isn't an every day occurrence, the boats have been known to sell out this time of year. Reach out to either Jessica or Frank for more information or help with booking

Argosy Cruises - Seattle Waterfront

Grab a scoop of the best ice cream in town at Husky Deli's! Jess grew up taking Sunday afternoon bike rides down to Husky's with eir family. Husky also makes fantastic hand-poured truffles, and a mean sandwich. Jess recommends the Pumpkin, Rootbeer, or Coconut!

Husky Deli & Catering & Ice Cream

Things to Do

Honeymoon Fund / Registry

A map is provided below for your reference. Programs will also be provided day-of at the check-in counter. Ceremony Check-in 4:00 - 4:30Please walk west from the parking lot up the main road towards NHS Hall to find the check-in. The ceremony location is a short walk from the check-in location. An elevator is available for those with mobility issues to assist with reaching the ceremony. Ceremony 4:30 - 5:00Note: there are no bathrooms available near the ceremony location. Please plan accordingly! Dinner 5:00 - 6:00NHS HallDinner will be catered by "Off The Rez" food truck, and a few speeches will be delivered during the meal. First Dance(s) 6:00 - 6:10Reception 6:10 - 10:00Guests may choose between the dance floor by Merrill Hall or the board game and video game library at NHS Hall.

Jessica & Frank

Jessica & Frank

J&F

Wedding Day

4:30 PM–5:00 PM

Ceremony

5:00 PM–10:00 PM

Reception