Wedding Day

6 Pastures Farm

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour

Dinner & Dancing

Our Wedding

It all began at Brix 27, a restaurant that Jillian was already a waitress at when Ben the new kitchen guy was hired. Jillian had no interest in Ben as anything more then friends and for a of couple years they were just that. Despite Ben half jokingly asking Jillian on dates every Sunday after the brunch shift and always helping her take out the trash, she never took him seriously. Until, one day after maybe his millionth dad joke she felt herself liking Ben as more then just a friend and decided to finally take him up on his date offer. Ever since that first date they have only fell more in love with each other every day. They have started traveling the world together, moved into their 1st home together, added their fur-baby Cooper, and if you were wondering Ben still takes out the trash for Jillian. After 2 amazing years together Ben knew Jillian was the one. In the truest nature of their relationship on the 1st snow day of winter, Dec 2020, they started their day off with mimosas, homemade eggs benedict and a Harry Potter marathon. Little did Jillian know she was going to end her day with Ben on one knee in their living room asking her to spend the rest of their lives together. Ben &amp; Jillian can't wait to say "I Do" and to share their love on their special day with all their friends and family!&nbsp;

Our Love Story 

Our Story

Our Engagement Photoshoot April 2021

Photos

Wedding Crashers Rule #8: Be the life of the party.

The Gals

Lindsay Dodds - Maid of Honor Jillian met Lindsay in their 6th grade home ec class. Little did those 12 year-old girls know they would eventually be helping each other plan weddings and baby showers. They have have collected so many jokes, endless embarrassing moments, a few cries on each others shoulders, and milestone celebrations over the last 14 years. Over the years, Jillian has gained Lindsay as a bonus sister and their families definitely can attest to that as well, you may even here about the summer they didn't spend one night apart for almost a month going back and forth from each others houses. Lindsay is one of the most caring, patient, and thoughtful people Jillian knows, and she can't wait for her to stand by her side on the big day! If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Basically anything to do with Target, Her sweet baby boy, Teaching, New Girl, and Her cuddly cats

Bethany Ross - Maid of Honor Jillian's parents made her wait 8 years before giving her a little sister of her own. Fun fact - their brother Ethan was born exactly 1 year before Bethany and he was expected to be Jillian's sister but surprised us all by being another little brother. Jillian cried and cried when he was born because all she wanted was a sister. Little did she know Bethany was right around the corner. Jillian admires her sister for many things but most all she cherishes her thoughtful and compassionate heart. These sisters have shared a lifetime of laughs, love and adventures. Jillian can't imagine this special day happening without Bethany standing by her side. If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Tiktok trends, Disney, Makeup, The beach, and Animals

Michael Triplett - Man of Honor Where does one even start with this friendship? Since circa 2008 Jillian and Michael are that duo you might have caught yourself asking "What's going on inside their heads?". I mean seriously one time Jillian's mom asked them why they've both been talking in a weird accent for weeks. Even though they live states away now, their friendship always picks right back up like no time has passed. Michael has always been there for Jillian when she needs him. He is honest and always puts his friends and family first. He is a listening ear for a vent session and a phenomenal expert in fashion advice. Their families can tell you they have basically added another sibling to the bunch with these two. Jillian admires how bold, courageous, and in the moment Michael is. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: NY fashion week, Kim Kardashian, Home decor (specifically Mackenzie-Childs), his cocker spaniel puppy - Cordelia or about how he still needs to get Jillian back from high school (lol)

Abby Spiker - Bridesmaid Abby and Jillian met at Martinsburg High School and became the best of friends during the summer of 2014. A truly legendary summer for their friend group, aka The Girls Room. Her sarcasm, trust-worthiness, and always being down for a wine night are some of the things Jillian loves most about Abby. Wine nights, charcuterie boards, and binge watching Game of Thrones were Jillian and Abby's go to when they weren't planning extravagant parties and being the hostess with the mostest. Jillian has always looked up to how amazing of a mom Abby is to her daughter, Brielle, one of our flower girls, and can't wait for them both to stand by her side when she says "I do". If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Brunch, Show Choir (iykyk), Margaritas, Being a softball coach, and How she doesn't know who will do better on the big day our flower girl Brielle or our Officiant Mo

Stephanny Romero - Bridesmaid Little did Jillian and Stephanny know that, thanks to alphabetic seating, they would start high school in 2010 as homeroom desk neighbors and end side by side on graduation day. Their friendship grew and now they are together for all of life's celebrations like engagement, babies, job promotions and buying a house. Now these two will stand side by side with again on Jillian's wedding day! Jillian loves Stephanny for her generosity, sincerity, and nurturing personality. She is a friend Jillian can count on to hype up her crafting skills and listen to her vent about life. If you see her at the wedding conversation topics could include: Papusas, Her precious baby girl, Leo, her very large cat, and how iHop is the perfect hangover cure.

Brandy Baker - Bridesmaid Jillian and Brandy became friends in High School but when they realized they were both headed to the same dorm at WVU their friendship grew. They created so many memories during college while both were learning how to maneuver adulthood. Don't get me wrong though, they had a few nights with some lost memories, probably a wallet, and definitely a few lipsticks while partying a little too hard in Motown, like they didn't have an 8 am exam the next morning. Jillian admires how witty, personable, and caring Brandy is as a friend. Brandy was Jillian's lifeline in college and now she cannot wait for her to be by her side on the big day! If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Living in Florida, skin care routines, her impeccable skill for creative Halloween costumes and her fur baby Mac.

Daria Simpson - Bridesmaid Jillian has known Daria since Middle School, but they didn't become close until their junior year of High School. Daria and Jillian were each others go to girls and they always brought the party! Needless to say, Daria is another founding member of The Girls Room. Jillian and Daria have created so many memories throughout the years and Jillian knows she can always count on Daria to dance the night away. Jillian would describe Daria as a free-spirit, always sincere, will never leave a man behind, and someone who can throw down some makeup skills. If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Youtube makeup tutorials, What it's like living on a ranch in Mexico, Shots but specifically tequila shots, and her sweet pup Teddy

Nikki Cloninger - Bridesmaid Nikki is one of the most compassionate and driven people Jillian knows and that is just touching the surface of why she is so lucky to have her as a cousin. They have memories going back to childhood, full of family get-togethers, vacations, games, and DYIing. Jillian has no idea what she would do without Nikki, who was the first to pave the way in wedding planning. Jillian remembers how amazing and magical being a part of Nikki's wedding was. Now that it's her turn she, cannot wait to have Nikki standing up there by her side. If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Disney, Traveling, Virginia Tech, Being a mama to her sweet baby girl, or How Cookies &amp; Cream is the best ice cream flavor,

Morgan Drewery - Bridesmaid To say these two were attached at the hip growing up is an understatement. Their memories stretch from Jillian crying every time she it as time to leave the Parrish house, to Morgan teaching Jillian how to dive off the diving board, and all the way to enjoying their first drinks as 21 years-olds in Las Vegas together. Jillian has always admired Morgan for how out-going and caring she is. At Morgan's wedding in 2020 Jillian loved being their to support her cousin on the big day and now she cannot wait to have Morgan by her side on her big day. If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Nursing, Disney, Mexican food and Margaritas, Her sweet baby boy, Traveling and JMU

Lauren Parrish - Bridesmaid I promise you that Jillian and Lauren could not count the amount of times that they sat around at the Parrish house sharing endless laughs, tons of love, and of course lots of party planning ideas! Lauren's kind, compassionate, and ambitious personality is one of the things Jillian admires most in her cousin. Jillian looks forward to continuing to be there for each others milestones in life, and cannot wait to have Lauren there by her side on the big day. If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Disney, Traveling, Nursing, How spaghetti is the best food, and Let's not forget Roll Tide!

Jackie Dayhuff - Bridesmaid Jackie is Jillian's soon to be bonus sister. As you may know Ben's twin bother is David, but if you didn't know any better you might think Jillian's twin is Jackie, and if you ask them they might mention the dozens of times they get asked or confused for one another. If you know Jackie I'm sure you are aware of her nurturing talent to make anyone she comes in contact with feel comfortable and secure in her space. Jackie always helpful, reminding Jillian of her worth and that to be the best version of yourself sometimes you need to fill your cup first. I cannot wait to officially call you sister! If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Real Estate, Party planning, Being a momma to 3 precious kiddos, and Harry Potter

Bekah Hayes - Bridesmaid Bekah is another wonderful bonus sister Jillian is gaining to her life. Some don't know but Jillian actually worked with Bekah before she knew Ben. She remembers Bekah talking about her twins brother who were about to turn 21. What a small world, right? Jillian admires Bekah's free-spirited and everlasting positive attitude. She is someone you can count on for the adventure of a lifetime. Jillian always looks forward to hearing about Bekah's trips &amp; travel. So, it only seems fitting that Bekah will join Jillian as a bridesmaid on her greatest adventure yet. If you see her at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Hiking, Yoga, Traveling, The Smile Initiative, and Her time living in Texas

The Guys

David Hayes - Best Man If you didn't already know, David is Ben's twin brother, so he basically has a birth right to be the Best Man. We are anticipating David to receive many accidental congratulations at the wedding, so make sure you double check the guy in the tie. Ben and David have been pretty inseparable their whole lives, from being rowdy boys to calling each other every Sunday to talk football. Growing up they were each others fiercest competition and closest companion. These two have shared everything throughout their lives and there is nothing more special to share then this day with David by Ben's side. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: His dogs Bella &amp; Barry, Harry Potter &amp; His love of all things tacos

Gary Hayes - Groomsman Gary is Ben's older brother and has always been someone he looks up to. From teaching him all about the newest video games growing up to taking him to his first college party, Gary has been there for many chapters in Ben's life. One of the things Ben admires most about Gary is his constant ability to light up a room with laughter. At the wedding if you see a crowd laughing, there is a high possibility it's this guy right here. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: VR Games, Theater, &amp; His time in Savannah, GA

Christian Rudy - Groomsman Ben &amp; Christian met while working at Brix 27. They became close after many pre-work lunch dates. You may not know this, but Christian is the cupid in Ben and Jillian's love story. He played a large role in bringing these two lovebirds together. Christian has been there for Ben and Jillian since before their start and they couldn't imagine a wedding without him by their side. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Cars, His little girl, Miller Lite, Football, hockey, golf... basically any sport

Hunter Blackford - Groomsman If you ever find yourself in the place where Ben and Jillian's love started and enjoying some amazing food, you have this guy right here to thank. Ben met Hunter while working together at Brix 27. These two guys have endured many long hours filled with blood sweat and tears AKA Friday nights. Oh and let's not forget their massive amount of inside jokes. The day wouldn't be complete without Hunter by Bens side. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Living in OC, His little boys, &amp; his marvel movie collection

Ben Adams- Groomsman Ben and Ben met their freshman year of high school. You'd think these two started off as the best of friends, but their friendship had to grow over time. You could say there was only enough room for 1 Ben in the lunch room. However, after sharing a few classes together sophomore year they realized the other Ben wasn't so bad and the rest is history. Ben (Hayes) has always admired how adventurous Ben (Adams) is, so it's only right that he stands by his side on his biggest adventure yet. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Almost anything about cars, Boxing, and His &amp; Ben's ping pong feud

Seth Posey- Groomsman Ben also become close with Seth in high school. These guys spent many adolescent nights together. Between sneaking liquor out of their parents cabinet to playing video games until the sun came up, they have a great deal of youthful memories together. In addition to being one of Bens longest friends, Seth is someone Ben knows he can go to for anything and can always count on him to be there. One thing Ben admires most about Seth is the loyalty he has for his friends and family. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Building PC's, His son Sebastian, &amp; Literally almost any video game

Matthew Ross- Groomsman Matthew is one of Bens future brother-in-laws. One thing Ben admires most about Matthew is his commitment to education. We all know Matthew can be a bit of a know-it-all but let's be honest this guy really does not a lot and Ben &amp; Jillian are super excited to watch him kill it in grad school! Matthew &amp; Ben have bonded over sports, star wars, and camp songs, and these two sure are excited to officially call each other "brothers". If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Chemistry of course, Star Wars, and the Rams (Shepherd &amp; Los Angeles)

Ethan Ross- Groomsman Ethan is another one of Bens soon to be brother-in-laws. Ethan can sometimes be quiet, so when he met Ben for the first time and referred to him as "Ben-dover" we all knew he instantly approved of sisters choice. Despite their age difference these two hit it off immediately and Ben felt like he found the little brother he never had. Thanks for signing up to be the DD in Nashville (lol)! If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Bills Mafia, Anime, and His twin Trevor Lawrence

Robert Dayhuff- Groomsman Robert was Bens 1st brother-in-law and has been in his life for almost as long Ben can remember. Ben spent a few years living with Robert &amp; Jackie and during that time these guys became super close. There are so many memories of them staying up late practicing their beer pong skills or going on Krumpe's runs. Ben has always looked up to Robert and hopes that he can be as great of husband as he is to Jackie. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: Cars, Tractors, Trains... basically all transportation, The Kansas Jayhawks, and The weather (no seriously this guys loves the weather)

Tykoya Neal- Groomsman Tykoya aka TK is yet another person Ben would refer to as a brother. These two met for the 1st time when Bens sister, Bekah, came back from Texas and dragged this guy with her to meet the fam. Ben was super excited to get to know TK after he moved to WV with Bekah. One thing Ben has come to admire most about TK is his calm and peaceful personality. Ben is excited to have TK stand by his side and hopes he can do the same one day and "officially" call him a brother. If you see him at the wedding, conversation topics could include: His 1st time seeing snow, The Houston Texans and his dog Chanel

Our Wedding Party

Q + A

Old town Winchester's walking mall boasts delicious restaurants and wonderful shops, plus a Civil War museum, and&nbsp;other historic buildings.

Old Town Winchester

Explore the art, enjoy the gardens&nbsp;and learn more about the people and places of the region. The collection includes an incredible art display of&nbsp; miniature houses and furniture. Outdoor lovers should stroll through the Glen Burnie Gardens.&nbsp;

Museum of the Shenandoah Valley

Enjoy a day on the trails or go for a tour of historic Harpers Ferry! The small little town has restaurants and stores to visit after you take a stroll on the C&amp;O canal!

Harpers Ferry National Historical Park

Looking for some fun? Check out Hollywood Casino! Enjoy music, food, gambling, sports betting, or even horse racing!

Hollywood Casino at Charles Town Races

Things To Do

This hotel is 8.8 miles from the venue. There are rooms available at a discounted rate. The last day to reserve a room at this rate is April 30th, 2022. You can choose which night you’d like to stay, or stay both. Whatever is convenient for you!

Jillian & Benjamin

Jillian & Benjamin

J&B

Wedding Day

3:30 PM–4:00 PM

Ceremony

4:00 PM–5:00 PM

Cocktail Hour

5:00 PM–10:00 PM

Dinner & Dancing