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From NY or NJ

Eastern Long Island: Southern State Pkwy to Grand Ave., Baldwin, Exit 20 South. Follow Grand Ave. to Sunrise Hwy (under the RR trestle). Turn right onto Sunrise Hwy; proceed onto Oceanside Rd. Turn left onto Oceanside Rd to Temple Avodah on the right. Enter via driveway.

Brooklyn: Belt Pkwy to Sunrise Hwy (Route 27). Proceed through Valley Stream, Lynbrook, into Rockville Centre. At Oceanside Rd make a right turn and stay on Oceanside Rd for one mile to Temple Avodah on right. Enter via driveway.

Bronx: Cross Bronx Expwy to Whitestone Bridge, to Cross Island Pkwy; then to Southern State to Exit 17, Malverne. Make right turn; stay left for Ocean Ave. Go one and a half miles to Sunrise Hwy, which is under trestle. Left onto Sunrise Hwy, one and a half miles to Oceanside Rd. Right onto Oceanside Rd, one mile to Temple Avodah on right. Enter via driveway.

Queens: Grand Central Pkwy to Cross Island Pkwy then take to Southern State to Exit 17, Malverne. Make right turn; stay left for Ocean Ave. Go one and a half miles to Sunrise Hwy, which is under trestle. Left onto Sunrise Hwy, one and a half miles to Oceanside Rd. Right onto Oceanside Rd, one mile to Temple Avodah on right. Enter via driveway.

Manhattan: L.I. Expwy to Cross Island Pkwy to; then to Southern State to Exit 17, Malverne. Make right turn; stay left for Ocean Ave. Go one and a half miles to Sunrise Hwy, which is under trestle. Left onto Sunrise Hwy, one and a half miles to Oceanside Rd. Right onto Oceanside Rd, one mile to Temple Avodah on right. Enter via driveway.

New Jersey: George Washington Bridge to Cross Bronx Expwy to Whitestone Bridge, to Cross Island Pkwy; then to Southern State to Exit 17, Malverne. Make right turn; stay left for Ocean Ave. Go one and a half miles to Sunrise Hwy, which is under trestle. Left onto Sunrise Hwy, one and a half miles to Oceanside Rd. Right onto Oceanside Rd, one mile to Temple Avodah on right. Enter via driveway.

Railroad: Penn Station, Long Beach train to Oceanside, then take cab to Temple Avodah.