The dress code is semi-formal. We'd love for you to dress up with us whether it be a floor length gown or a nice cocktail dress. Jumpsuits and Pantsuits are also welcomed. Gentlemen are encouraged to wear suit jackets or a button down with a vest. Please no jeans or sneakers. Do be aware of the nature of our venue, Lots of dirt paths, lush lawns and some hills. We encourage wedges or wide heels or end up barefoot with us to dance the night away!

Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests who have been formally noted on your wedding invitation. If you did receive a plus one (Your name + Guest) Please ensure that you are RSVPing for yourself and your guest.

While we love everyone's children, due to capacity restraints and to give our guests a much deserved night of relaxation, we are only able to have a select few children at the wedding who are formally noted on invitations (You + family)

We kindly ask that phones be put away during the ceremony. This is to ensure that everyone we love has an unobstructed view, including the professionals that we've hired to capture one of the most important moments of our lives. We'd hate for a well-meaning person's phone to block this moment. After our photographers have captured our first kiss, feel free to take as many photos as you'd like! We have a wedding hashtag where in which any and all photos posted to social media can find us. We also promise to share professional photos with those who would like them!

There is no valet option for our venue. There is a dirt parking lot where spots will be limited. We are asking guests to carpool, Uber, or park at our hotel ( Hotel Indigo East End) where there will be a shuttle to our venue. Please see our "Travel" section on our website for more information.

Both the ceremony and reception will be outdoor events. There will be a tent to party under for the reception and the cocktail hour will be held in and out of the farm's greenhouse. However, our ceremony will be under nothing but blue skies so fingers crossed for good weather!

We have reserved a group of rooms at Hotel Indigo in Riverhead located about 2 miles from our venue. Please call (631)369-2200 and mention the Jodie and Joseph wedding block to insure you receive the discount for your room at time of booking. Our after party will be held at this hotel as well so we strongly encourage our guests to stay and party the night away with us!