BRING ID!
After the wedding, head over to the Wayfarer. It is about a 12 minute drive. When you get there, do not wait in line and DO NOT pay cover.
Give the door guy "Joel Ramos" name- with the big wedding group. They should let you right in.
HELPFUL TIP- If you use Uber you can pre-order your UBER for a specific time. Maybe say 10:05pm. There will be a ton of people trying to get out all at once.