Joseph and Amber

Wednesday, November 13, 2024 • Pelham, NC

Joseph and Amber

Wednesday, November 13, 2024 • Pelham, NC

Is there a dress code?

Yes! We want our guests to dress up with us. Formal or semi formal attire. We ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride - whites, ivories, and creams. Ladies, it is a grassy ceremony site please keep this in mind when choosing your footwear :)

Accessibility

Feel free to bring walkers and wheelchairs if needed. Our ceremony has golf cart transportation to and from the ceremony site and our reception area is one floor no steps :)

Can I bring a +1 ?

Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you receive a plus one, there will be a space to share who when you RSVP online. Please respect our wishes as we would like our wedding to be as intimate as possible.

Are kids allowed?

While we love our little ones, we can only accommodate children formally invited on wedding invites.

Where will the ceremony & reception be?

Everything will be at the same address listed on your invite. The ceremony will be outside at the bottom of OakHavens Famous oak tree. Cocktail hour will be outside near OakHavens gorgeous white barn. The reception will be held inside the barn.

When should I arrive for the ceremony?

We kindly ask that guests begin to arrive 15-20 minutes before the official ceremony begins.

When does the reception end?

The reception is planned to end at 10pm.

When should I RSVP by?

OCTOBER 9th. If we do not receive your RSVP by then, we will have to mark you as “no”. We hope you understand.

Will there be alcohol?

Yes, we will have beer and wine. No hard liquor is permitted.

We politely request NO PHOTOS or VIDEOS be posted on social media until we post our first as MR & MRS.