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Love At The End Of The World

In the summer of 2020, when the world seemed to stand still and uncertainty loomed around every corner, two strangers found themselves downloading Hinge. Perhaps it was fate, or maybe just quarantine boredom, but this seemingly simple decision would change their lives forever. Joe was immediately struck by a pair of striking blue eyes in a photograph. But it wasn't just Paige's beauty that captured his attention - it was her talent and passion, highlighted through her artwork of Tony Stark, Iron Man, that sparked their first real connection and conversation. In a time when the world was keeping everyone apart, Joe and Paige took things slow, spending weeks getting to know each other through messages before meeting in person. This unexpected gift of time allowed them to forge a deeper connection than might have been possible in the "normal" world. When they finally met for their first dare at Liberty Hound restaurant, Joe arrived in what would become the signature look of 2020 - sunglasses, a hat, and a mask. Yet somehow, Paige knew it was him instantly, going right up to him asking “are you Joe?” When leaving the date, Paige thought to herself “yep, I am going to end up dating this guy!”&nbsp; As they navigated the challenges of graduate school - Joe in law school and Paige pursuing her masters degree - they found strength in their shared experiences. Between the stress of their studies and the uncertainty of the world around them, they became each other's constant. Their "dates" became creative adventures in isolation: marathon watching Game of Thrones, completing puzzles, testing new recipes, and taking photography walks where Paige would model while Joe captured the beauty he saw through his lens. Paige remembers fondly during this time watching TV on the couch with Joe, looking over at him as he ate peanut butter crackers and realizing she loved him. In April 2021, when Joe fell ill with COVID, their bond was tested by weeks of&nbsp; forced separation.&nbsp; It was during these difficult days that the pair realized something profound: in a world that felt like it was ending, they had found something they never wanted to be without. As vaccines rolled out and the world slowly began to heal, so too did their love story evolve, growing stronger with each passing day. What began as an unexpected connection in the midst of global chaos had blossomed into something beautiful and unshakeable - a reminder that even in the darkest of times, love finds a way.

As the world began to reopen and life started to resemble something closer to normal, Joe and Paige faced their next great adventure together: life after graduation. The pandemic that had brought them together was subsiding, but the strength of their bond only continued to grow as they tackled new challenges side by side. The summer of bar exam preparation became a testament to their partnership. While Joe buried himself in legal texts and practice questions, Paige became his anchor, offering unwavering support through one of the most demanding challenges of his career. Meanwhile, as Paige navigated her own job search, Joe was there to celebrate every interview and comfort every setback. They were learning, firsthand, how to be each other's constant in a world of uncertainty. Their dedication paid off. Joe passed the bar exam and began his career as a Tax Lawyer at Hodgson Russ LLP in Buffalo, while Paige found her calling as an Academic Coordinator at the University at Buffalo. Though the challenges of COVID-19 had evolved into the everyday hurdles of professional life, they faced each new obstacle together, growing stronger with every shared experience. With the world opening up again, they began to expand their horizons together. Their love story added new travel chapters in Washington DC, New Orleans, New York City, and Las Vegas (their favorite spot) each destination bringing new adventures and memories. Between trips, Joe introduced Paige to the magical world of Middle-earth, sharing his passion for The Lord of the Rings. Their shared love for fantasy worlds - from Marvel to Tolkien - became yet another thread in the tapestry of their relationship, a reminder of how their story began. As days turned into months, and months into years, their love deepened with every shared experience. Each new challenge of adulthood became another opportunity to learn about each other, to grow together, and to build a stronger foundation for their future. What had started as an unexpected connection during a global pandemic had evolved into something neither could have imagined when they first matched on Hinge that summer day in 2020.

Through the years, Joe and Paige had built more than just a relationship – they had created a partnership that brought out the best in each other. Every challenge they faced, every moment they shared, and every adventure they embarked on only served to strengthen their bond. They had learned the intricate dance of supporting each other's dreams while pursuing their own. Whether it was celebrating professional victories, sharing quiet evenings at home, or exploring new cities together, they discovered that life was simply better when shared with each other. Their relationship had grown from texting and FaceTiming during a global pandemic to building a life together, each day adding new layers to their love story. By early 2024, Joe knew with absolute certainty that this was the love of a lifetime. The girl with the striking blue eyes who had captured his attention during lockdown had become his best friend, his biggest supporter, and his perfect match. Though Joe would have proposed at a gas station in the pouring rain – because Paige was everything he had ever dreamed of – he wanted to create a moment as magical as their love. The United Kingdom had always held a special place in Joe's heart from his time studying abroad, and he wanted to make it special for Paige too. What better place to propose than Oxford, where J.R.R. Tolkien had written much of The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings – stories that had become such a meaningful part of their relationship? On August 17, 2024, in the historic quad of Exeter College where Tolkien himself had taught, overlooking the magnificent Radcliffe Camera, Joe asked Paige to be his wife. She said yes, and as they celebrated with champagne, their love story added another beautiful chapter. Paige will always remember their UK journey as the trip of a lifetime and cherish every memory from that day. Their journey from a pandemic match to soulmates proves that sometimes, the most extraordinary love stories bloom in the most unexpected circumstances. What started as "love at the end of the world" had become a love to last a lifetime. Now, they look forward to celebrating their romantic dreams coming true with an unforgettable party surrounded by their family, friends, and loved ones – the perfect beginning to their next great adventure together.

Our Story

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Bridesmaids

Anna Tantillo

Delaney Johnson

Celeste Barbera

Alexis Demer

Jillian Fisher

Monica Harmon

Amanda Pfitscher

Groomsmen

Leon O'Rourke

John Tantillo

Guy Brett-Robertson

David Carroll

Alex Eaton

Thomas Finnigan, III

Bennett Miller

Nicholas Miller

Tayler Swanson

Michael Thadani

Wedding Party

Logistics

Q: What is the dress code?

A: The dress code is traditional Black Tie attire. Here's what that means: For Men: A formal black tuxedo, formal white dress shirt, bow tie (traditionally black), black patent leather dress shoes, black dress socks Optional: Black cummerbund or formal waistcoat A pocket square, watch, or cufflinks can add a touch of personality while maintaining the traditional aesthetic. For Women: Full-length formal gown, evening shoes or heels, or a tuxedo or formal pantsuit (should be full-length and in black with satin lapels, similar to a traditional tuxedo) Optional: Formal wrap or shawl A Note on Colors: While black is classic, women in gowns are welcome to wear any color. For those opting for a tuxedo or pantsuit, we ask that you stay with traditional black to maintain the formal aesthetic. Helpful Tip: Planning to rent? We recommend making arrangements 6-8 weeks before the wedding to ensure availability and proper fitting.

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Buffalo, NY Wedding Travel Guide

Getting There

By Air

Flying to Buffalo Niagara International Airport (BUF) Major airlines serving BUF: American, Delta, United, Southwest, JetBlue Common connecting hubs:-- New York (JFK/LGA)-- Chicago (ORD/MDW)-- Philadelphia (PHL)-- Detroit (DTW) International Travel Options Via Toronto Pearson International Airport (YYZ)~Often more direct international flight options~2 hour drive to Buffalo~Required documents:-- Valid passport-- Proper visas if needed-- Car rental insurance for cross-border travel~Note: Cross-border wait times can vary (15-90 minutes) Via New York City~Multiple airport options (JFK, LGA, EWR)~1 hour connecting flight to Buffalo~Allow minimum 2 hours for immigration/customs and connection

Tips for International Travelers

~Ensure passport validity extends at least 6 months beyond travel dates~Check visa requirements well in advance~Get travel insurance that covers both US and Canada if planning Toronto route~Bring appropriate power adapters (US uses 120V, Type A/B plugs)~Consider downloading offline maps for the region

By Car

For guests driving from Canada, you'll take the Queen Elizabeth Way (QEW) to Fort Erie and cross into Buffalo via the Peace Bridge. After crossing, follow I-190 South to I-90 East. From there, take Exit 54 and follow NY-400 South directly into East Aurora. Remember to factor in time for border crossing, which can range from 15 to 90 minutes. If you're coming from the New York City or Albany area, you'll travel west on I-90 (New York State Thruway) until you reach Exit 54 for East Aurora. The NY-400 South (Aurora Expressway) will take you directly into town. Note that I-90 is a toll road, so bring cash or an E-ZPass for convenience. Guests arriving from the Pittsburgh or Erie area should take I-79 North to Erie, then connect to I-90 East toward Buffalo. Follow I-90 until Exit 54, then take NY-400 South to East Aurora. Those coming from Cleveland will follow I-90 East through Erie and continue to the same Exit 54 for NY-400 South. For a more scenic route, consider taking US-20A through Orchard Park into East Aurora. While this adds a few minutes to your journey, it offers a lovely drive through Western New York's countryside.

Where To Stay

<a href="https://thedelavanbuffalo.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Delavan Hotel &amp; Spa</a>6461 Transit RoadBuffalo, NY 14043 Room blocks are available. Guests can go to the website linked above and use the code MillerTantillo and get the group rate or just call hotel desk at 716-635-9000 Opt 4. King/double rooms are $148 a night. Rooms may be booked for 2-3 nights.

<a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/hotels/bufeahx-hampton-east-aurora/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Hampton Inn East Aurora</a>49 Olean StreetEast Aurora, NY 14052

<a href="https://roycroftinn.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Roycroft Inn</a>40 South Grove Street East Aurora NY, 14052

<a href="https://curtisshotel.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Curtiss Hotel </a>210 Franklin Street Buffalo, New York 14202

Travel

When you visit Buffalo for the first time you will quickly learn that we love two things above all else: the Buffalo Bills and chicken wings! Paige's favorite place to get chicken wings in the area is Bar Bill. Check out their East Aurora location so you can walk Main Street while you wait for your table!

Try The Chicken Wings At Bar-Bill Tavern

Niagara Falls showcases the raw power of the Great Lakes as nearly 700,000 gallons of water per second thunder over cliffs towering 170 feet high. To visit from Buffalo, take I-190 North to Niagara Falls State Park (30 minutes by car), where you'll find ample parking and easy access to the falls. Don't miss the iconic Maid of the Mist boat ride (seasonal), the Cave of the Winds walkways that bring you face-to-face with the falls' spray, and the panoramic views from Prospect Point and Goat Island.

Visit Niagara Falls

East Aurora is a cute small town that looks like it came right out of a Hallmark movie. Some great spots to stop into are: 1) Vidler's -- a variety store that has toys, candy, and almost anything you can think of. 2) Blue Eyed Baker -- a pastry shop that sells breakfast, lunch, and baked goods. 3) 42 North -- one of Paige and Joe's favorite breweries! 4) Rosie's Handcrafted Ice Cream - - Vegan and Non-Vegan options are available.

Explore East Aurora 

Art and museum lovers should make time to visit the Buffalo AKG Art Museum. If you are looking for something to do after the museum, Delaware Park is just across the street, where you can spend time walking around Hoyt lake.

Buffalo AKG Art Museum

The brand new home of the Buffalo Bills will be completed in the summer of 2026. Be one of the first to check out this new state-of-the-art stadium, modeled after England's own Tottenham Hotspur Stadium.

Visit The New Highmark Stadium

You should, of course, try the chicken wings, but when you are ready to try something else, consider one of Paige and Joe's favorite restaurants! Inizio: <a href="https://www.inizio716.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.inizio716.com/</a>Ristorante Lombardo: <a href="https://www.ristorantelombardo.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.ristorantelombardo.com/</a>Hutch's: <a href="https://www.hutchsrestaurant.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.hutchsrestaurant.com/</a>189 Burger: <a href="https://www.oneeightynine.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.oneeightynine.com/</a>

Where to Eat 

Canalside is at the heart of downtown Buffalo's waterfront revitalization. Located at the 1825 terminus of the Erie Canal, the site's storied history is just as exciting as its future! Canalside hosts hundreds of events throughout the year, many of which are free or low cost to the public. You'll find concerts and festivals, ice skating, history tours, and outdoor winter activities.

Visit Canalside

Fancy an adult beverage? Here's a list of some great bars to check out in Buffalo. Moor Pat: <a href="https://moorpat.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://moorpat.com/</a>Wayland: <a href="https://www.waylandbrewing.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.waylandbrewing.com/</a>Lucky Day: <a href="http://www.luckydaywhiskeybar.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.luckydaywhiskeybar.com/</a>The General Riley's Speakeasy: 72 Elm St General Riley House East Aurora, NY 14052Founding Father's Pub: 75 Edward St, Buffalo, NY 14202Eddie Brady's: <a href="https://eddiebradys.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://eddiebradys.com/</a>High Violet: <a href="https://barhighviolet.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://barhighviolet.com/</a>

Joseph & Paige

Joseph & Paige

J&P

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