Julia and Lex met at Plymouth State University, where they participated in a drag show together. They never actually spoke.

Julia and Lex reconnected on a dating app years later. After they matched Julia sent Lex a message immediately: "I don't know if you remember me, but I had a huge crush on you in college." Lex asked Julia out shortly after receiving this message.

After three years of falling in love and being absolute goofballs together, Lex asked Julia to marry them. Julia said yes.