Black Tie Optional: tuxedos & suits, floor length or fancy cocktail dresses, or a formal pantsuit. Please no gym shoes, jeans, or casual wear. Please refrain from wearing full shades of white or cream in reference to your suits and dresses.

We would love to have everyone, but can only have a select amount of guests. This information will specified on your invite. Please look for “insert name + family” vs. just you or you + your spouses name. You can also check by RSVPing to see the number of people included on your invite.

As much as we’d love to have everyone, we can only have a select amount of guests. This information will be included on your original invite. You can also check by RSVPing, where we would allow you to RSVP for 2 people instead of 1.

There will be shuttle to and from the reception available to guests staying at the chosen hotel. Everyone else will be expected to find their own transportation to and from the ceremony and wedding reception. If you are having any trouble, we recommend Uber/Lyft, which is easily accessible in the greater Chicago area.

Ceremony: please arrive 30 minutes early to the church in order to give yourself time to park, socialize, and find a seat. Reception: Cocktail hour starts at 6pm. Reception starts at 7pm & goes until 1am.

Saint Mary of the Woods 6959 N Hiawatha Ave Chicago, IL 60646

Chevy Chase Country Club 1000 N Milwaukee Ave Wheeling, IL 60090

Online only, through this website's RSVP link. We are not accepting mail-in RSVPs.

Please RSVP by Saturday, June 6th, 2026.

Yes, both the church and the reception venue have large parking lots available at no cost to you.

Our ceremony and reception are both indoor. There will be an outdoor patio available during cocktail hour & the reception.

Open Bar - having cash tips available for the bartenders will be greatly appreciated.