We want you to be part of our special day! However, we knew that whether we held the ceremony in California or South Dakota, some of our loved ones would still have a difficult time making the trek halfway across the US. If you have received a "Potluck Invite" when you try to RSVP, this means that the couple thought it may be easier for you to make it to our potluck reception in South Dakota, rather than flying out to California because of cost, time, family size, health concerns, etc.. ........................ If you **have** received a "Potluck" option on your online RSVP, please fill out the RSVP as usual to indicate whether you will be joining us in California or not. From there, please indicate whether you will be able to join us for the potluck in South Dakota. Whichever one you choose, we're looking forward to celebrating with you!

Yes! If you are RSVPing for the wedding in California, we have done our best to ensure that every child who is living in the same household has been added onto the RSVP list. If you are RSVPing for the potluck in South Dakota, we have added the names of the parents of each household and request that you simply note on your RSVP how many children will be joining you, as well as if any may need a high-chair.