Most of you will drive to Lewes. If you are coming from North of Delaware, the Cape May ferry ends in Lewes and is a great ride. Look for information to book your trip here https://www.cmlf.com If you are flying (is anyone flying?), the closest major airports are Philadephia or BWI. You can of course also fly into DCA – it is a 3 hour drive at least on a Friday afternoon in May from DCA to Lewes. If you are coming from North and you don’t want to drive, you can take NJ transit to Cape May. The ferry is very close to the train stop.

Drive to the second entrance of Cape Shores. Make a left into entrance. Make a right at the clubhouse. Drive around and make a right onto Cape Shores Drive. Park anywhere on the street that doesn’t have a yellow line. Enter the beach following the boardwalk on the ground by the entrance to the dock. Instead of walking on the dock, make a right – you will see the party set up. There will be a sign at the appropriate beach entrance.

Please wear clothing. It is really all we ask. No need to be naked. Unless, it is really your thing, then advance warning is requested. It will be a casual weekend. BBQ/Clambake – it will be on a beach. Wear what makes you comfortable on a beach. Assume in May it gets a tad chilly at night – or not, climate change and all. The wedding will take place around 6 pm. Wear dancing shoes. Wear shoes. Don’t wear uncomfortable shoes. I’ll be the one in the long white dress. Monte in the suit. Let’s call it beach wedding comfortable. Does that help? If it doesn’t, I am sure Naomi is open to consulting.

No. there will be none of that insanity – we are looking to purge things not get more things. NO THINGS. Your presence is the very best gift we can receive. And, I am sure Monte and John O’Shea will be holding a pre wedding field trip to the local Home Depot to calm nerves and yes, Clovis will be going to pee on a washer before the festivities. You can join if you need to fill your shopping or Home Depot desires.